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My child won't go to sleep unless I'm lying next to her: what should I do?
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My child won't go to sleep unless I'm lying next to her: what should I do?
What should you do if your child can't get to sleep without you next to them? It can be a habit that becomes harder to break as they get older, but we've got tips from a child sleep expert and our mums on some things to try if you're keen to make a change...
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Please, if anyone has any suggestions they would be received very gratefully.
We tried it all. And now our neighbors complained of my baby crying....
Baby doesn't seem to know how to soothe himself....im a defeated mom
It sounds like the building noises are making your daughter seek reassurance from you. How long is the construction going to be going on for?
If it's a short-term thing, you may just have to hang in there till it's all over.
If it's a long-term building process, it may be that she'll get used to the noises and you can gradually withdraw at nap times.
We wish you luck with it all!
We're not sure what work your neighbours are having done but, if they don't mind and – crucially, if you can do this REALLY safely – how about taking your daughter to their house and showing her/talking to her about what the builders are doing and how the tools they are using are making those noises? Maybe if she can see/understand what's making the noise, it will seem less scary?
Good luck with it all.