need help asap
well im posting this everywhere after months im still stuck im going to a christening in 2 weeks and cant fing nothing to wear its getting me so down everytime i try find something i end up in tears, the weight just isnt going i hardly leave house now as just feel like a big fat frump
i need something that will look nice and make me feel nice otherwise im contemplating throwing a fake sicky and leaving oh to go with kids by himself which upsets me as he really wants me to go as we havent been anywhere together since well before zac was born
anyway enough of me moaning here is the criteria so hope you can help ladies:
i have huge boobs (well they are to me used to be a 38b and i loved them i am anti big boobs on myself lol) im a 42 dd-e and breastfeeding exclusivley as zac refuses a bottle now
Top of my arms are fat and wobbly
huge saggy butt and i still look like im going to have baby any minute just a bit saggier i feel like it looks like i have a bum at front if that makes sense :roll: and im around a size 20
it looks like i have a big body with a little head and feel everything makes me look even bigger, boobs look superhuman and stomach looks like twins are in there
sorry to moan but is there any hope for me
i need something that will look nice and make me feel nice otherwise im contemplating throwing a fake sicky and leaving oh to go with kids by himself which upsets me as he really wants me to go as we havent been anywhere together since well before zac was born
anyway enough of me moaning here is the criteria so hope you can help ladies:
i have huge boobs (well they are to me used to be a 38b and i loved them i am anti big boobs on myself lol) im a 42 dd-e and breastfeeding exclusivley as zac refuses a bottle now
Top of my arms are fat and wobbly
huge saggy butt and i still look like im going to have baby any minute just a bit saggier i feel like it looks like i have a bum at front if that makes sense :roll: and im around a size 20
it looks like i have a big body with a little head and feel everything makes me look even bigger, boobs look superhuman and stomach looks like twins are in there
sorry to moan but is there any hope for me
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Bra sorted?
right get hubby to have baby/ies for a day on his own this weekend and go (on your own) shopping and try on everything you see that you like... if you find something that works (e.g. a shape of top, style of jeans, cut of skirt) remember it and build from there.
Give yourself a break, you have had a baby and your body is probably still all over the place, mine is bonkers and baby is 9 months!
had a bit of a nosey online at evans and simply be found this up to now i actually like it think i would wear with long leggings and flat shoes think it may work well on the bf front to what you think ladies
http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/product/details/show.action?pdLpUid=AX629&pdBoUid=3422#colour:1995,size:
someone has already said about control underwear! AMAZING STUFF! I use the m&s stuff as i haven't got the money for the pricier ranges but they have lots of good options for that too xx