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Weaning at 8 weeks! WTF???
A relative of my husband had a baby just 8 weeks ago and her HV has told her that it is fine to wean her baby now! The baby is perfectly healthy, not a big baby or with any other issues.
I just can't understand why on earth a health professional would advise such a thing. I was always told that the youngest you could wean was 17 weeks.
Is it just me or does this seem wrong?
I just can't understand why on earth a health professional would advise such a thing. I was always told that the youngest you could wean was 17 weeks.
Is it just me or does this seem wrong?
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I know we weaned at 18 weeks, but I was petrified at doing that! I only did it after speaking to 3 health professionals and alot of soul seraching!
8 weeks is far to young and the HV should be ashamed of herself!
[Modified by: joemoeuk on July 31, 2010 01:03 PM]
Jayne xx
My Aunt was taking great pleasure in telling me too! She was gobsmacked we didn't start weaning Tobes until around 5 months ish!
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I was weaned at 12 weeks and OH was more like 4 months according to his mum but according to his auntie she used to give him chocolate at 6 weeks old. Wasn't all that unusual 20-30 years ago, but definitely a no-no for me!
A relation of mine started weaning her 8 week old on rusk not so long ago as baby was taking 3-4oz 2.5-3 hourl, which I would class as normal or a growth spurt at that age?!
I personally can't see why you would want or need to wean that early xx
she doesn't even have the excuse of being a first time mam or anything like the guidelines having changed recently as she has a 1.5 year old too.
i would say something but she'll only get really arsey if i do so unfortunately i'm going to have to let her get on with it, even though she's forever going on about how fussy her other child is and how she's allergic to loads...gee i wonder why??
Some people just dont seem to understand the implications of weaning SO early. Why do these people want their babies to grow up so quickly? I hated weaning, and am only now starting to enjoy it, as the boys love food but cant get it quick enough so I spend my time rushing through feeding each of them! They took a long time to develop the hand to mouth coordination (and still dont have the ability to purposely pick something up for themselves) so spoon feeding was the only way for us (otherwise I would have 10 month olds eating nothing as they hate milk!) but at 8 weeks!?! Never!
I was talking to her about foods I cant give him yet, apparently he cant have pate (she didn't give a reason) or shellfish like prawns (due to possible food poisoning) or any kind of nuts (choking and allergies) plus I had to remind her about honey.
We weaned early before switching to BLW, but 8 weeks is obscene!
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I was speechless but guess it isn't my place to say anthing to her.
I personally think 8 weeks is far to young, but it also depends on the baby and how the mother feels about it. I weaned my daughter at 3 months, she is now 17 this was the advice given back then, it changed with my son. He is now 8 and i weaned him at 5 months. My baby is now 8 weeks old, and yes he is a hungry baby, but i will not even think about weaning him just yet. Perhaps using a hungrier baby milk may help!