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Baby won't sleep on back
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Hi,
Having a problem with my 2 week old. Ella has really bad wind and vomits quite frequently. We are getting it looked into but when we wind her and she falls asleep and we put her into her moses basket she wakes up within minutes and cries until we pick her up. She sleeps on our chests after/ while getting winded and is really settled - will sleep for a good 2/3 hours. She will also sleep in her car seat happily and on her back in our arms.
Really don't know if her moses basket is uncomfy or what but end up sleeping at night with her on my chest or she lies on her side cuddled into me. Really don't want her in the bed with me and also can't seem to get peace during the day to do anything as she is always in my arms.
Any suggestions?
Tried putting her in her basket when she falls asleep at night but she ends up waking up very distressed and just won't calm. Think that it might have something to do with the wind/ vomitting but not sure.
HELP!! Please.
Having a problem with my 2 week old. Ella has really bad wind and vomits quite frequently. We are getting it looked into but when we wind her and she falls asleep and we put her into her moses basket she wakes up within minutes and cries until we pick her up. She sleeps on our chests after/ while getting winded and is really settled - will sleep for a good 2/3 hours. She will also sleep in her car seat happily and on her back in our arms.
Really don't know if her moses basket is uncomfy or what but end up sleeping at night with her on my chest or she lies on her side cuddled into me. Really don't want her in the bed with me and also can't seem to get peace during the day to do anything as she is always in my arms.
Any suggestions?
Tried putting her in her basket when she falls asleep at night but she ends up waking up very distressed and just won't calm. Think that it might have something to do with the wind/ vomitting but not sure.
HELP!! Please.
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What milk is ur lo on? have u tried rising the moses basket up as if shes sitting up almost but not to high as some babies dont like lying on their backs, my daughter is the same i rise her bed up with a small box or 4 books and she settled really well with that as well, and have u tried giving her cool bolied water if she wont settle? we do that for keira at the end of the night she only takes 2 oz of it then she brings all her wind up that causing her to unsettle
Having cool bolied water wont harm her regluar feeds as keira wakes up every 4 hours durin the day and when she have her last bottle at 10 pm she stays awake for about an hour then cried so we give her the water and brings her wind up then put her down and she wont wake up until either at 4am or 6 am depending on how hungry she is!
Give it a try and see what happpened with the bed and maybe give her cool bolied water same as if ur warming her bottle up incase u wonder how cooled
Good Luck and keep me up to date please
Cheriste xxxxxxxx
Cheriste xxxxxxxxxx
Will try tilting her moses basket tonight and see what happens. I'm the same though - I hate lying on my back to sleep and always sleep on my tummy or side. She sleeps so well in the bed with me but I'm so worried that I accidently roll over or hurt her in some way.
She really needs to sleep in her bed though and I really need to get my life back during the day.
Will let you know how we get on. Fingers crossed.
We were at the paed yest (she's 14 wk now) as it's still not better, and they gave her some domperidone medicine aswell as gaviscon in her milk.
Get it seen to asap at the docs as my hv just said try c&g comfort which didn't work. The docs have a few remedies you can try. Good luck - i feel for you!
How did u get on? hope all is well
like alioli said take her to ur doctor to see what they can do for u xxxxxxxxxx
PS Gaviscon really helped with his reflux xxxx Good luck
Good luck with whatever decision you make, but as some very lovely ladies told me on the 'my baby was born in Dec' bit. These are OUR babies we do have some say, we don't have to just go by what the Dr, HV and books say - esp as they keep changing their minds! You know your baby better than anyone.
El x
I wouldn't worry what the HV says just do what you feel is right for your lo. You know best. HV's are only following rule books and I bet they had their lo's sleeping where they felt best. When I was younger I was put to sleep the whole night on my tummy as that what was recommended then and nothing happened. I think they just like to change the rules to feel as if they are doing something.
Will phone the doc in the morning as been told by hv to try infacol for 4 days to see if just wind but it is def more than that. I have IBS and my tummy has been really upset due to the stress.
Will try her on her tummy too as she really likes that. Will keep you posted and see how we get on tonight. Hoping we can sort out her reflux problems as it really isn't good to see her in distress.
Sorry to hear that u had couple of bad nights with lo, have u tried tilting the moses basket? i tend to put keira on her side if shes not settled on her back well as i have noticed that she had been trying to turn on to her side when i put her down for the night.... like everyone says its the rules that the hv had to follow but at the end of the day its not them that having to deal with sicky baby its us!! so we do what we think is right and hopefully makes it bit easiter and have happy babies not stressed out mums and dads and babies!
Good Luck guys and do what u thinks best!!
Cheriste xxxx
Thank goodness for this forum! Have been at wits ends as my 11 day old has the exact same problem! Am using Infacol and he feeds/sleeps etc. fine all day - from 9pm however, he howls with wind pain, drawing up his legs and will only settle in my arms. All night. When I go to transfer him to his moses basket (on his back), he wakes up within 20 minutes and cries again. My DH and I are both exhausted and feel so bad for our LO that he is in so much discomfort with wind. I would like to try some of these suggestions - how do you raise the moses basket up? Do you put something under the legs of the stand or a rolled up towel under the mattress? To prop him on his side, do you put a rolled up towel on either side of him?
Also, is 11 days old to young to switch to a different formula brand? Is on SMA gold now and have heard that Aptamil/C&G Comfort could be worth a try? HV coming on Thursday, so will also ask her, but thought I'd check in here first for real-life, first hand advice!
Thanks so much for any advice you can give from a desperate new mummy!
Webminx
Definatley sounds like reflux and I too let baby sleep on side from a couple of weeks and we actually transferred baby to cot too as he just would not sleep in his basket. he then decided he wanted to sleep on his front from 3 months and at 2 1/2 still does. I also found that a safety pillow wedge helped him.
I personally found that infacol didn't work and the only thing that worked for us was Colief but at 9.99 a bottle and lasting 3-4days it was very expensive.
Thankfully my lo was over his reflux by about about 12weeks and hoping it won't continue for you for too long either
xx
He was in his moses basket for a fortnight and hated it, he went into his cot and as soon as he was tired and laid on his tum sleep was instant.
I remember the first couple of weeks, this is our first, we took turns in staying up all night and letting AJ sleep on one of us!! It was horrific, we were zombies! Its all a learning curve hun xxx
Just wanted to pop back and say that I tried swaddling my LO before feeding him and then putting him down straight after the feed (changed nappy before the feed). The swaddling allows him to lie slightly to the side while still being on his back and seems to comfort him - so maybe worth a try for other mums with this issue...
I then tuck him in tightly with a cotton sheet over the swaddling blanket. Last night for the first time, he slept for 2 hours at a time in the moses basket and only had to sit up with him on my chest twice instead of all night! Am going to try switching to Aptamil from SMA today also to see if that helps so fingers crossed things have turned a corner?!
Thanks for all your help and suggestions!!
webminx
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