Who would you leave lo with........
I've got to leave lo with someone while I go to a funeral. I's prefere to take her but my mum said I cant as it's no place for babies and I'm not going to go against her wishes as its her dad (my grandads) funeral.
1 - My aunts friend is going to look after my brothers step children at my nans house, this person would be a total stranger to my lo if she'll have Louise as well but would have the advantage that this is the closest place to leave her and I would leave her for the least amount of time.
2 - My friend - I could ask a friend who had a 7 month old and 2 older children who will be at home to help and are great with the babies. We see my friend lots so she is a familier person and know Louise quite well.
3 - My pil - they are quite good with Louise and would be happy to help out if they can though they dont know her as well as my friend.
Trouble with options 2 and 3 are that we will be an hours drive away from both places so she would definately need 1 milk feed if not 2 and she is still refusing to take a bottle. If she has to she'll have a couple of ounces - either formula or ebm.
I really am torn! I dont want to leave her with a stranger but I dont want to leave her for hours either!
What do you think? what would you do?