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  • erm yeah we do sometimes lol, we are away from each other a lot though so 3 times a day is just for catch ups hehe!!

    Sex has been amazing since Amber was born think its the bond we have!!

    Oh mrsj - no need to feel down hunni i no my hubby is always at it as we are apart a lot I always ask him if he has been diy'ing hehe, its just men im afraid - talk to him and let him no how you feel. Our laptop os like a porn shop honestly its crazy!! xx
  • Mrsjbourne don't let it get to you, my oh has admitted to my face he waits until i'm out and he's doing it because the kids aren't there. lol. All i ever think is if he's sorting himself out, i don't have to. One less job for me. lol

    Lisa xxx
  • I think sadly for me I want it more than him! I know Im prob in the minority.The only time oh has really had to pounce on me is when Im pregnant and just loose the will to have sex! I think I must have too must testosterone! Mind you I think it is better when you havnt had it for a while. Id rather have it once a week and it was mind blowing than 3 or 4 times a week and it was just ok x x x
  • He definitely initiates more than me. He figures that if he asks all the time I might say yes some of the time! I think I've only " treated" him once since Archie was born 5 months ago.
    It's hard cos we're in a one bed flat so Archie is still in our room, so if/when we do have sex it's quick and quiet. Not like the old days !! S x
  • Before we got married we agreed that if one of 'wanted it' then we would give it to tehm and not use silly excuses like headacehs, tiredness etc. I told him I was tired beginning of rpegnancy and he wasnt having any of ti! Good job I gave in as sex during pregnancy was fab and often (sorry tmi!) Its probably 60/40.

    Dont have it no way as near as often maybe 2 a week max. Agree with Sarah bout once a week rather than 4 times now Im not pregnant.

    Suzmch-our daughter is in teh same room and we have found that we dont awake her!
    Mrsjb- like others have said, at least diy hes not with anyone else. Do have a heart to heart with your oh and tell him just how you feel and how it upsets you. Soemtiems they dont understand how it upsets the opposite sex.
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