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Worried that something is wrong
i worry about everything but i have never been concerned about tobys development etc but today something really odd happened. Toby sometimes looks like he is in a daze - where you can wave your hand infront of his face but he is obviously daydreaming about new toys etc - and this is fine but today he had a totally different look and it really worried me - after about 45 secs he just turned his head to me a smiled - bless him - but it was a terrible vacant expression. I was shouting his name and he just didnt respond and it really freaked me out to the point i was literally going to call an ambulance??? I really do worry about everything but usually about my parenting and how it will affect toby - i have never once questioned his health - except for today - i am freaked
any ideas x
any ideas x
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Ty does this occasionally, just stares off into the distance. Especially when we're down my mums and he's mesmerised by her patio doors and the view, we tend to joke about it and 'ooo he's gone again' and when he comes back its '1,2,3. you're back in the room'. His mind just seems to wander, to be honest i'm not worried about it as its just like he's concentrating on something. But if you're worried maybe ask your HV ?
Sarah
Jak's done this once or twice. He'sjust kinds of zoned-out, but I honestly think he does it on purpose because he's just looking at something else. I know it's bog-standard advice, but maybe calling the hv will put your mind at rest? I'm sorry I don't have any better advice, give Toby a big squeeze from me and Jak x x x
I wouldn't be worried, but if it is really bothering you I'm sure your HV can put your mind at ease.