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Post Natal Depression
Hi everyone. I have posted a few times here about sleeping routines, breastfeeding etc etc and lately lack of sleep. I finally went to see my Dr and was diagnosed with PND. I have been prescribed anti-deps (zoloft) which I'm due to start taking today. I feel so ashamed about the whole thing, a failure and that it's quite a taboo thing. I manage to look after my LO and do show him love etc but just feel that I'm not coping with things, very stressed and angry and taking it out on my OH....would be good to hear if anyone else has been or is in the same boat. Am quite nervous about starting on the pills!
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You are certainly not alone in this,i was diagnosed just before xmas and have been on a tab called sertraline since. I still get my low days but i think that is generally baby blues and i ffel a hell of a lot better than i did before i was on them!
It all came to a head when my lovely other half told me that if i didn't go to the doctors he was going to leave me, we have been together fornearly seven years and i was well aware that i was taking everything out on him and my mum as they are my two biggest support networks!
I was really clingy to my baby so even though i was doing a great job looking after her i wasn't letting anyone else help and so wasn't really looking after myself. You will start to feel better, i promise. One thing i have found that has really helped is going to a post natal group inmy area, it may be worth looking into that as there is always going to be someone that is in the same boat as you.
You sound exactly like i did when i was first diagnosed as my LO is soooo gorgeous and jolly i thought it was something to do with me but now i know it wasn't!
Take care
Sam x