am i the only one?
My lo is 19wks old & i really didn't imagine how much i would love her & how fab life is now she is here,but i just can't help thinking about cot death & how devestated i would be if anything happened to her,i have thought about getting one of those mats that beep if she doesn't move but my oh thinks they are a waste of money as once she's asleep she hardly moves & all that will happen is lo will end up waking up which in some ways i do think he's got a point.But i really can't stop thinking about it & sometimes end up crying at night or checking on lo, in some ways i think its getting out of hand esp when i'm lying crying about it,am i the only one who thinks like this? i hope i haven't upset anyone who has lost a child i just need to get advice cos when i mention it to dh he just raises his eyebrows,thank you xo
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i have had a few tears in the past about wat could happen, so think its normal to worry about ur baby, im kinda glad i missed super nanny as oliver is same age as the baby they lost, i woulda prob sat up all night watching him.
i have now just talked myself into checking on him!
not happy when he dont sleep not happy when he does! i cant win,lol. xx
i have also just gone & checked on Grace & had to sneak out of her room cos i nearly woke her up witht the squeeky floorboards!
[Modified by: cloclo on August 29, 2007 09:43 PM]
It is something that i think all parents worry about but i would say the monitor is well worth the money if only for that extra reassurance...
I worry all the time about Reece choking and not knowing what to do. He is 6 months now and I gave him bread and butter for the first time yesterday but ended up fishing it out of his mouth as he managed to get a load in at once. I'm glad Im not the only one worrying .... Jo x
Hilary