need to rant ( sorry)
I'll say sorry now for my rant but need to get it out . i took myself food shopping today ,i havent been much on my own as i dont like seeing to many people ,but i thought i'd be brave its been nearly 8 wks people will leave me alone.
All was going well untill i got to the counter a women in front of me said "im so glad my kids have grown up because shopping for a family is expensive " i just smiled at her then the DOZEY girl serveing blurted out " this lady has just had a baby !!!!" i then had to tell them both about charlie the women just shrugged and said "oh your get over it " and walked off . i wanted to hit her !!!!!
But the young girl behind then counter managed to annow me even more by saying maybe its a good job he died cos feeding a yong family is so expensive !!!!!!!!!!!! how i never draged her over the counter i dont know , how can people be this way so i'm home now feeling very mad with the world sorry again for ranting just needed to say it
All was going well untill i got to the counter a women in front of me said "im so glad my kids have grown up because shopping for a family is expensive " i just smiled at her then the DOZEY girl serveing blurted out " this lady has just had a baby !!!!" i then had to tell them both about charlie the women just shrugged and said "oh your get over it " and walked off . i wanted to hit her !!!!!
But the young girl behind then counter managed to annow me even more by saying maybe its a good job he died cos feeding a yong family is so expensive !!!!!!!!!!!! how i never draged her over the counter i dont know , how can people be this way so i'm home now feeling very mad with the world sorry again for ranting just needed to say it
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I would have launched if I was you, gave her a peace of my mind.
I am not looking forward to venturing out on my own which is why I will prob shop online for the big grocery shop and get hubby to pop to local shop x
how you doing hun , xxx
Oh my God thats terrible! How can people even think those things,
I really am sorry for your loss hun, not everyone will be like this, sitting home alone must be awful but going out only to hear this must have knocked you sideways.
we cant really do much about silly peoples comments, but it is maybe worth putting in a complaint about the till workers comments. she is definatley BANG out of order. the only ' please ground swollow me up now' moment i have had so far is... russel(my oh used to stop into greggs on his way to work everymorning and when i was off i would go with him, well about ten weeks after darcey was born i decided i was brave enough to go in alone. i fiqured everyone i was going to see would know by then. well i was wrong. the very woman that had seen and served us most days for the previous ten weeks (me with no bump and no baby said " well where is she then