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Struggling with breastfeeding at 6 weeks - need advice
I have been breastfeeding my lo with no problems and he is really thriving, but last week he started with a nasty cough and has been having difficulty feeding as he keeps coughing up phem/mucus so he only feeds for a couple of minutes at a time. On Tuesday I noticed that one of my breasts is not filling up although I always alternate sides, the other side fills up and feels hard when he is due a feed but no matter what I try, the problem breast is always soft.
Now it seems that he is never fully satisfied after a feed and when I do feed him, I can't seem to hear him swallowing. I have come to the point where I feel like he would benefit more from formula milk but I love breastfeeding and didn't have any intention of quitting. I feel like a failure and don't know whether my milk has dried up (if that can happen?) or whether my routine has been thrown out due to his cough.
I've been expressing and he seems to guzzle it like he is starving but when I feed him myself, he suckles for a few mintues and then sleeps, then wakes up hungry after about half an hour.
I really feel like I'm going in circles and need some advice.
Has anyone got any suggestions or been through the same thing? I don't want to stop breastfeeding and I don't want to give up.
Thanks
Now it seems that he is never fully satisfied after a feed and when I do feed him, I can't seem to hear him swallowing. I have come to the point where I feel like he would benefit more from formula milk but I love breastfeeding and didn't have any intention of quitting. I feel like a failure and don't know whether my milk has dried up (if that can happen?) or whether my routine has been thrown out due to his cough.
I've been expressing and he seems to guzzle it like he is starving but when I feed him myself, he suckles for a few mintues and then sleeps, then wakes up hungry after about half an hour.
I really feel like I'm going in circles and need some advice.
Has anyone got any suggestions or been through the same thing? I don't want to stop breastfeeding and I don't want to give up.
Thanks
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have you tried making sure his nose is free of snot before feeding ? while he is feeding if he is slowing and starting to fall asleep rub the palm of his hand like you are doing "round and round the garden" rhyme as this stimultes them to stay away i also used to take abby off and wind her after a few min to let my let down establish after her mad sucking as it was slow and she got fed up waiting so i was basically distracting her till the milk was there and easy for her to get
your baby is also at the growth spurt time so it will feel like you don't have enough but in a day or so you will be complaining about engorgement lol
hope i have helped you doing really well
fea x
good luck and stick with it.
sian x
Caz x x