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TTC struggles 💔
Jammy1892
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Hi ladies,
I have posted on here a few times for questions and advice, but right now I just need a rant and some hope/success stories from anyone who has been struggling ttc.
It has now officially been a year since we have been actively trying and AF showed today. I feel so absolutely gutted, sad and heartbroken.Â
I work on a daily basis with pregnant women and babies which makes it heart that much more. To top things off my best friend has just found out she is pregnant - on her first month of trying! It's just a kick in the teeth when we have been trying for so long and done everything possible in our power to increase our chances (many hours of research, diet, supplements, cutting alcohol, etc..).
I really need some hope right now from anyone who has had a success story after TTC struggles. My partner has poor sperm motility and morphology so any success stories relating to this would be extremely helpful!Â
Baby dust to you all xx
I have posted on here a few times for questions and advice, but right now I just need a rant and some hope/success stories from anyone who has been struggling ttc.
It has now officially been a year since we have been actively trying and AF showed today. I feel so absolutely gutted, sad and heartbroken.Â
I work on a daily basis with pregnant women and babies which makes it heart that much more. To top things off my best friend has just found out she is pregnant - on her first month of trying! It's just a kick in the teeth when we have been trying for so long and done everything possible in our power to increase our chances (many hours of research, diet, supplements, cutting alcohol, etc..).
I really need some hope right now from anyone who has had a success story after TTC struggles. My partner has poor sperm motility and morphology so any success stories relating to this would be extremely helpful!Â
Baby dust to you all xx
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im currently in the same boat
i get my test results on wed
but most likely I’ll be given clomid
i sit all day watching pregnancy announcement videos
i kinda wish I had the same surprise experience rather than this trying
I do exactly the same with the videos....don't know why I torture myself though.Â
Did you get your test results?Â
I'm just so gutted about it all.Â
Had a super busy day today
They said to lose weight but it’s not like I’m over weight
hormomes and organs are all fine
but eggs are not Maturing 😒
so they said I can lose weight and try naturalÂ
Did your OH have tests too? X
he’s redoing the sperm tomorrow and we start clomid based on that
I’ve heard so many stories like this
i hope this happens to me right before clomid🤪
Hope you get the results you want @Revbomb. Hopefully they don't take too long x
What do you suspect is wrong? I'm constantly thinking about what I can do to make things happen. So DH has a son from his previous relationship. He is 6 so I think he's sperm is fine. But my periods are so regular and I have never had an anovulatory cycle (of course, the ones I have been tracking since started to TTC). Ovulation between CD 15 and 18 and luteal phase is 12 days ( 13 DPO I usually start my period ). I just started to read a book It starts with an egg. Maybe you could look it up ? It suggests some supplements for specific fertility situations. Only thing I can see helping is losing some weight. I'm eating healthy and working out but after a life long battle with weight, my body is sooo slow with losing weight. I should lose 40 pounds to be at the normal weight. I'm now doing everything I can to lose weight while DH is away so we can start TTC again in December.
It really is heartbreaking every month af arrives.Â
I felt absolutely hopeless during covid because all of the investigations and referrals were put on hold. Just seen the specialist so things are finally moving on.Â
I am trying not to let this defeat me. Every month I find something else to distract myself with... This month I plan to decorate our kitchen. I find having other focuses helps. Please remember there are many of us out there that are going through similar. We are here for you if you need to vent. The way I see it is... I am passing through a storm now so I can get to my rainbow.Â