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Some days are harder than others
Avocado68
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Not quite sure what I want from this forum... maybe people who understand what it feels like to take ovulation and pregnancy tests over and over again only to continue to get negatives. I have PCOS, we've been on this TTC journey for over 2 years now. Tried the old fashioned way, tried, Chinese herbal medicine, tried clomid, and currently on my 3rd round of Letrozole. We've already taken the steps to go to a clinic to try the IUI route, we have all the necessary tests scheduled for this month, like we're being proactive but some days just really blow. Not sure what's going on but I'm on cycle 3 with Letrozole and I haven't had a positive ovulation test(this cycle)and we're going on day 17 of my cycle 😔. Feels like we take 5 steps only to get pushed 10 back. Takes a toll on you. Like I said idk what I'm looking for but it really just feels good to let it all out. 💨💨💨
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I would say not to worry about it being day 17 with no ovulation yet. Every month I ovulated from day 17-19. It was a long old wait but it did happen.
You're making all the right moves to make this happen which is wonderful. It is hard not to lose hope I know. Sending big hugs xx
I totally get the strain it can put on a relationship as all you can think about is ttc. Also it does feel like you're wasting your life as you are living one cycle to the next...!
People really don't understand the strain it puts on you 🙄 it's such a taboo subject and not many talk about it.
You should join the threads on trying to conceive. There's a very active thread called hoping for a bfp in October and there are many supportive ladies on that 😊 xxx
I wish you so much luck and all the baby dust. It is a rough journey but one that will be worth it. I hope you ovulate soon xxx
When I started my BMI was nearly 40. They said the wouldn’t give me any clomid until it was down to 35 but we’re happy to put me on metformin. I increased my dosage to 1500mg 3 times a day over 2 months. Always had with a decent sized meal and that worked for me, they did have a slow released version but I didn’t need it.