Hubby doesn't like me coming on here....
Hi Everyone
I told my hubby that I use these forums, and he is not happy : ( He thinks coming on here is making me more neurotic and stressed, and he feels we should be talking to eachother and not strangers.
Not really sure what to do as its nice coming on here and getting some advise and support. But don't want to hurt hubbys feelings and certainly dont want him thinking I am a total nut job : (
Any one else have this problem? xxx
I told my hubby that I use these forums, and he is not happy : ( He thinks coming on here is making me more neurotic and stressed, and he feels we should be talking to eachother and not strangers.
Not really sure what to do as its nice coming on here and getting some advise and support. But don't want to hurt hubbys feelings and certainly dont want him thinking I am a total nut job : (
Any one else have this problem? xxx
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Well, that was until he said he was off to check a problem with his bike on a bikers forum!!!
I know the thing my hubby has with it is that he says i should go to the Dr instead of asking about symptoms on here. BUT no way could i check in every so often to say "i felt a niggle, should i knit some booties yet?"
He seems worried that you are upset or stressed, did you say it could be like the YAYW site? Did you use that?
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Yeah he says I shouldn't trust peoples opinions on here and that if I need any advise talk to him or anything serious - GP.
I know i couldnt talk to hubby and say "lets go ttc as my EWCM and pos OPK means im OVing!!"
***I cant believe i didnt understand the jargon when i joined***!!!
Do you say its just 'silly girly stuff'?
I hope all is ok!
x x x
"I know i couldnt talk to hubby and say "lets go ttc as my EWCM and pos OPK means im OVing!!"
Thats sooo funny !! ha ha !! : )
I am not going away : ) I just wont mention the forums to hubby any more and hope he doesn't mention it again : ) He didn't get mean about it or anything, he was just concerned for my sanity bless him !
Hubby - if you are reading this and realise its me - Looove youuu ! : ) ! LOL !
When he is at work i post away lol and when he is about i dont really look on here.
We would love you to stay
a doc wont tell you not to test to early we will
Try telling hubs we offer our advice were not going to be your DR lol sometimes we may even tell you to go to the DR.
best of luck gems x
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I dont spend too long here these days... mostly when he's at work.
He found out when i first joined and went a bit mental. its more of a you don't know who's on here/privacy/what info being given out etc!!!!
now i just do it when he isn't here which is a lot of the time!! lol!!!
he can't stop me so there!! lol what hubs doesn't know won't hurt him!!!
But im sure after months of ttc and me turning into an obsessed woman he will soon start worrying!!
i think they dont understand our need to talk about things with people in the same situation,i come on here for support and info but i also come on here for the relaxed laugh we can all have esp when it comes to tmi and sex questions lol
plusi have made some great friends on here and not just ones i class as internet friends
I wont be going anywhere ha ha as I have learned so much and got some great advice and support on here so am STAYING PUT whether hubby likes it or not!
My husband doesn't mind - it's actually me who sometimes thinks being on here too much makes me neurotic about the whole thing!
He just teases me when he sees the BE pages and asks if I'm an expert - obviously not yet cos I still not PG!!
I can think of far worse uses of our time anyway so not going anywhere! xx
Well my hubby has been alright up to this point, I was gonna slap him lol, He said i could be talking to a bunch of 12 year olds, I was like 'Yeah AS IF a 12 year old is gonna know what HCG is and all the abbreviations along with the site' I mean what a div. lol
Bearing in mind he has been totally negative about me feeling pregnant, hardly any support whatsoever, Im telling him it aint over till the witch sings. lol, he is a lovely hubby really, he just doesnt want to get excited about it when i dont know for sure yet.
MPP
xxx
cant believe how many BFPs we got this month about 1 for every day of the month i think.
with regards to the health side of things i have seen so many posts not on here. about i have started beeding/i have fallen on my bump/baby has stopped moving what should i do? and im sitting their thinking, what the hell are you doing posting on here wasting precious time. phone the docs or get yourself to hospital which is usually the advice they are given from the posters. but cant believe they had to ask in the 1st place!
It does come up in arguments though when I moan about him always being on Call of-sodding-Duty!