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Hiya Ladies,
Just thought I'd do a quick update. Thanks so much to those of you who've been asking after me and so sorry not to have got back to you sooner.
After the prevous 2 scans being fine but reduction in symptoms, cramping and a teeny tiny bit of coloured discharge.....I was convinced something was wrong.
The private scan (as NHS wouldn't do anything...AGAIN) showed that only one of our babies had survived. He/she was jumping around and waving at us and measuring nearly a week ahead what it should have been. Very very pleased but also very very sad....such a confusing mix of emotions. This week has been very up and down and I've had really bad cramps and backache today which is very worrying but we'll just have to hope and pray for good news at our next scan now. I don't feel too positive but I'm trying to hold in mind the image of our little one bobbing about last week!
xxx
Just thought I'd do a quick update. Thanks so much to those of you who've been asking after me and so sorry not to have got back to you sooner.
After the prevous 2 scans being fine but reduction in symptoms, cramping and a teeny tiny bit of coloured discharge.....I was convinced something was wrong.
The private scan (as NHS wouldn't do anything...AGAIN) showed that only one of our babies had survived. He/she was jumping around and waving at us and measuring nearly a week ahead what it should have been. Very very pleased but also very very sad....such a confusing mix of emotions. This week has been very up and down and I've had really bad cramps and backache today which is very worrying but we'll just have to hope and pray for good news at our next scan now. I don't feel too positive but I'm trying to hold in mind the image of our little one bobbing about last week!
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Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs xxxxx
I am praying for you and your family x x
I'm however delighted to hear that your little bean is enjoying a party in there. Stay positive for him/her. Cramps are, I'm told, very normal.
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Love to you and OH
Sianni xxxxxxxx
[Modified by: Sianni on January 21, 2010 09:53 PM]
Im so sorry you have lost one of your precious babies.
Try & stay strong for your other little fighter & lean on us for support.
Were always here if you need a chat.
Sending you lots of hugs my lovelie xxx
I hope you are able to focus on the little bean who is frantically waving at you to reassure you that he/she is doing wonderfully well in there. Try to stay positive for this little one.
Big hugs xxx
Im truely sorry for the loss of your 1 bean, i know words wont make it better sweetie but iam thinking of you.
I dont know if this will help give you some renewed hope that your other gorgeous bean will be ok but i do have a success story to share.
A good friend of mine had her 1st baby when she was just 21, all scans & tests showed a healthy baby. However when he was born he had a catalogue of problems & sadly passed away at just 2 weeks old. Because of the problems my friend was tested & they found she had chromosomes ( sorry for spelling), missing & any biological children would either not get to term or pass away soon after.
She then had egg donation & IVF & like you her 1st 2 scans showed she was having twins.
Sadly at her 3rd scan it showed 1 of the babies hadnt made it but the other was fine & jumping about.
She went on to have a healthy PG & now has a very lively 3 year old son.
I realy hope it gives you a bit of hope hunny, im realy rooting for you & keeping absolutely EVERYTHING crossed.
((((((((((((MASSIVE HUGS)))))))))))))))))
Thinking of you. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Thinking of you.x
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Really sorry to hear this, hoping and praying for your little bean to hang in there!
get as much rest as you can, and know that you are in all our thoughts!
xx
Please stay positive and full of hope for your little acrobat. Everything crossed for you.
xxx
So are the NHS offering you a 12wk scan then?
xx