having a couple of months of from ttc
Hi all,
weve decided to have a couple of months off from ttc, weve been trying for a while and im getting more and more upset every time af gets me because getting preg has become a bit of an obsession. We have one happy healthy 4yo ( who i fell preg with first month of trying) so im already blessed, but i would really like a sibling for him and am getting stressed that its never going to happen.
Another reason is that our sons birthday is right by xmas and another nov-jan baby wouldn't be ideal financially for us, so weve booked a little holiday and are just going to chill and relax and then think about it again in a few months.
Just wanted to say good luck everybody, hope there are lots of BFP's all round, including me when i come back xx
weve decided to have a couple of months off from ttc, weve been trying for a while and im getting more and more upset every time af gets me because getting preg has become a bit of an obsession. We have one happy healthy 4yo ( who i fell preg with first month of trying) so im already blessed, but i would really like a sibling for him and am getting stressed that its never going to happen.
Another reason is that our sons birthday is right by xmas and another nov-jan baby wouldn't be ideal financially for us, so weve booked a little holiday and are just going to chill and relax and then think about it again in a few months.
Just wanted to say good luck everybody, hope there are lots of BFP's all round, including me when i come back xx
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I am gutted as I thought we had done it this month and no BFP and af no show so I think I am going to go to the docs soon.
I have lost all pma and had faint positives last week so I dont know what to think.
I wish you the best for the future hun and try to stay postive as hard as it may be and take pleasure in doing things with your 4 year old.
Some people do say if you take your mind off trying it happens straight away, good luck hun xx
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