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I didn't want it to come to this

Hey Ladies,

So im 13 DPO and this morning I did a test BFN, so now we are offically classed as have ''fertility problems''. I was so upset after doing the test but now I just feel angry, what did I ever do wrong to deserve all this?

Got a refural from my doctor the last time I saw her for a PCOS test and I just put it away thinking it wouldn't come to that but it has!

I feel like ill never see that second line.

We've just reached our 12 month mark. (Icant even tell hubby its neg because it will kill him)

karina xx

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  • Ah honey, I feel for you. Sure your hubby will support you and get back to the doctors and get it checked out, hopefully they'll give you some news or hope.
  • Ah honey, I feel for you. Sure your hubby will support you and get back to the doctors and get it checked out, hopefully they'll give you some news or hope.
  • oh honey, how sad, i really hope you can get to the Drs and get some questions answered and all the rest.

    Im sure your hubby will be there for you-he'll be wondering if you are ok since you'll be upset at the moment.
    x x x x
  • Hi i hope you dont mind me g/c but i was the same i got referred to a specialist but because i knew we was getting help it made me relax and when i received the letter the next monthi did a final test and it came back BFP. Think of this as a good thing. Be positive honey x x x x
  • Hi Karina,
    I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you think you may have a shy bean and the test just hasn't picked it up yet? I hope you feel that you're able to share how you're feeling with your OH as this is a rollercoaster time that you're experiencing and you need the love and support of each other.
    Take care,
  • Hey Ladies

    Well OH and I had an awesome talk @ 6am this morning on our day off lol....

    We've decided that we're going to see a specialist and look @ maybe starting IUI as it was an option given to us.

    Couldnt get my test done today the place was packed so off tomorrow to get it done..

    Awww Donna I wish it was but I think I know deep down inside I'm not. You such an awesome cyber friend lol.

    It just really sucks being so young and healthy and yet nothing is happening.

    karina xx
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