Stranded somewhere between af and BFP?
Hi ladies,
I truly am sorry for misleading people to believe I had my BFP earlier in the week, I am just so confused right now and I do think the lines on the SD tests were either a chemical pregnancy or evap lines that appeared after the 10 min deadline.
I kept on testing early and got caught up in the whole can I can't I see a line and then think my heart told me I was seeing lines, ttc is such a crazy business.
AF was due yesterday and on CBD all I have had is BFN and on SD tests well I havent had a clear positive line as of yet.
I have heard of people getting their BFP's at 19/23dpo? but how come the hcg isnt in the pee before then if you implant no later than 12dpo??
I guess the fact I was stressing over the lines last week might have delayed my period, but I have a 'very wet' feeling down below and this is a positive sign of pregnancy I have been told? I have been having other symptoms for past few week too but am just going to have to test every other day and see if the BFP comes up.
I went to the docs last month as had a weird af and she said to go back if my next period is late so going to give it till Friday and if no BFP or af then am making an appointment to see the doc.
My last af was on 16th November that I can remember being a proper full flow af and dec was on/off and disappearing/re-appearing which the doctor found odd but said wait a month and if you dont get your next period come back :evil:
All I really have to say is I feel so stupid for thinking I could be lucky enough to have a BFP, like everyone else on BE it is always on my mind and I really do want this more than anything right now but am going to focus on my weekend break to London in 2 weeks and then we have booked a hol for our anniversary.
So basically stuck in limbo for now ?
Thanks for all your support over the last 2 weeks dont know what I would have done without you all
Congratulations to any recent BFP's October is really filling up now!!! Still save me a seat just incase I have a shy one!!
I truly am sorry for misleading people to believe I had my BFP earlier in the week, I am just so confused right now and I do think the lines on the SD tests were either a chemical pregnancy or evap lines that appeared after the 10 min deadline.
I kept on testing early and got caught up in the whole can I can't I see a line and then think my heart told me I was seeing lines, ttc is such a crazy business.
AF was due yesterday and on CBD all I have had is BFN and on SD tests well I havent had a clear positive line as of yet.
I have heard of people getting their BFP's at 19/23dpo? but how come the hcg isnt in the pee before then if you implant no later than 12dpo??
I guess the fact I was stressing over the lines last week might have delayed my period, but I have a 'very wet' feeling down below and this is a positive sign of pregnancy I have been told? I have been having other symptoms for past few week too but am just going to have to test every other day and see if the BFP comes up.
I went to the docs last month as had a weird af and she said to go back if my next period is late so going to give it till Friday and if no BFP or af then am making an appointment to see the doc.
My last af was on 16th November that I can remember being a proper full flow af and dec was on/off and disappearing/re-appearing which the doctor found odd but said wait a month and if you dont get your next period come back :evil:
All I really have to say is I feel so stupid for thinking I could be lucky enough to have a BFP, like everyone else on BE it is always on my mind and I really do want this more than anything right now but am going to focus on my weekend break to London in 2 weeks and then we have booked a hol for our anniversary.
So basically stuck in limbo for now ?
Thanks for all your support over the last 2 weeks dont know what I would have done without you all
Congratulations to any recent BFP's October is really filling up now!!! Still save me a seat just incase I have a shy one!!
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There is still hope so don't give up quite yet. Remember until AF comes, it isn't over. Try and take things easy and take another test later.
Good luck, lots of baby dust to you. xxxx
fingers crossed!
really hope you get what you want, keep us updated xxx
This whole TTC business is terrible, its so rough as we can normally achieve anything, then all of a sudden something is taken out of our hands completely.
I really hope you just have a shy bean, like many other ladies have said-its not over until AF shows up.
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I am waiting a few more days to see whats happening xx
I hope that all this does turn into a bfp, my sil was 8 weeks pg before she was confirmed and that was by a blood test because her hormones just refused to show up on a hpt, her little girl is nearly 3 now so its really not over until af turns up gl hunny x
Another lady on here who is pg now told me she didnt get a bfp at all with her son!!! She went for scan to find out why she hadnt had AF & they saw a baby instead!!! Imagine that!!.
Keeping every crossed for you xxx
I done a test yday afternoon a SD and thought I could see a shadow of a line, I done a CBD this morning BFN but looked at ydays SD and theres a visible pink line, am thinking now maybe chem pregnancy??
Fingers crossed its a shy one xx
I really hope you haven't had a chem pg, keep testing every other day, as some ladies dont get a bfp until a week after their af was due, im sure i even remember someone not getting their bfp until 2 weeks after their bfp. if still nothing in a few days and book a docs appt as some people dont even get a proper bfp on a hpt and can only get a pg confirmed with blood tests....sorry that was all really long winded.
i really hope you get your bfp soon xx
i know you like to keep your tests but i would advise chucking them after the time limit coz its going to be even more confusing if you've got newly visable lines on old tests thrown into the mix too!
really hope you get a lovely "pregnant" on a CBD soon so its nice and clear for you!
xxx
I am now 3 days late, I am testing tomorrow with a FRER, I did try to test earlier because i thought I needed a pee but there wasnt enough so have wasted a bl**dy test!!
Am well fed up so either way Ive got a shy bean or maybe at uti?? but its not itchy or smelly or anything (sorry tmi) my pee smells a bit strange and its like a cloudy clear colour!!
Who else could I tell but you lovely ladies ha ha xx
Its just a frustrating time, I feel pregnant have loads of symptoms but not getting a BFP so until then am just waiting x
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