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:(Argghh i want to cry!!!**old post,updated 18thfeb**
Hi,
I posted on here once before,a couple of weeks ago about when to expect symptoms to disappear after a m/c. I just wish my body would go back to normal,so i know when to expect a period etc etc.
I found out i was 5 weeks pregnant on 5th jan, but i started bleeding the next day,the bleed lasted 6 days,and was like a normal period,without period pains.I tested a week after the bleed started and it was positive, 3 days later i tested again and it was negative,but i looked later and saw a faint line but i'm putting this down to an evap line.
4 weeks ago yesterday the bleed stopped, i still haven't had a period or any kind of bleed since, i still have tender boobs and i can't work out if i am weeing more than i used to or not,as i'm starting to worry if this is all in my head.I also think i am having increased discharge (sorry for tmi),like this morning for example i woke up and thought my period was finally here,but it was just clear discharge,and i don't usually get that.(sorry again for tmi)
When should i expect my 1st period?
I don't know if i should go doctors or whether they will be useless like they were last time,they left me to it,didn't want to see me/scan me despite having pregnancy confirmed at doctors on the 5th jan and just told me to retest like i did.
Argghh i'm sick of wondering,and the people i try to talk to,can't offer me any advice or support.
Just feel so lonely,useless and confused. sorry for the major rant.
Please help if you can?
[Modified by: bump&us2010 on 15 February 2010 19:41:24 ]
[Modified by: bump&us2010 on 18 February 2010 22:18:12 ]
I posted on here once before,a couple of weeks ago about when to expect symptoms to disappear after a m/c. I just wish my body would go back to normal,so i know when to expect a period etc etc.
I found out i was 5 weeks pregnant on 5th jan, but i started bleeding the next day,the bleed lasted 6 days,and was like a normal period,without period pains.I tested a week after the bleed started and it was positive, 3 days later i tested again and it was negative,but i looked later and saw a faint line but i'm putting this down to an evap line.
4 weeks ago yesterday the bleed stopped, i still haven't had a period or any kind of bleed since, i still have tender boobs and i can't work out if i am weeing more than i used to or not,as i'm starting to worry if this is all in my head.I also think i am having increased discharge (sorry for tmi),like this morning for example i woke up and thought my period was finally here,but it was just clear discharge,and i don't usually get that.(sorry again for tmi)
When should i expect my 1st period?
I don't know if i should go doctors or whether they will be useless like they were last time,they left me to it,didn't want to see me/scan me despite having pregnancy confirmed at doctors on the 5th jan and just told me to retest like i did.
Argghh i'm sick of wondering,and the people i try to talk to,can't offer me any advice or support.
Just feel so lonely,useless and confused. sorry for the major rant.
Please help if you can?
[Modified by: bump&us2010 on 15 February 2010 19:41:24 ]
[Modified by: bump&us2010 on 18 February 2010 22:18:12 ]
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I had my mmc mid January, and was told to expect my next period in 4-6 weeks, but other people have been told 4-8 weeks i think. I can understand how you're feeling at the moment, there just doesn't seem to be enough support or information provided by the NHS does there?
Having a period seems like the next step in getting back to normal, and closer to a new pregnancy, i'm looking forward to getting mine for the first time ever! Elli xx
I think i am going to have to ring the doctors,have a check over and try and get some advice out of them.
I know exactly how you feel Elli,can't wait to get it back,and i never thought i'd find myself looking forward to a period.Haha.
thankyou again x
I done another test this evening,a real cheap one from wilko's (twin pack for 1.99,so about as cheap as they come lol) It was a strong positive. Going to book an appointment with doctors and give them a ring asap in the morning,but just wondered what anyone thinks about this?
Could it still be a positive from my m/c which started 6 weeks ago?
Or could i be pregnant again despite having no period in between?
Is it possible that i didn't have a m/c?(i had a period type bleed,with no cramps or pain for 6 days) and could the test i had done 10 days after the miscarriage,have been a false negative?or was the other line there in the beginning and i put it down to evap after not noticing it?
I really am so confused as to what is going on,and i know the gp will probably help with all this,but i just need some of your wonderful advice,so i could maybe catch some z's tonight instead of lying awake wondering of all the possibilities.
Please throw as much advice/thoughts my way as possible
Thankyou x
Don't be fobbed off and if necessary go to A and E!
so that's all i know for now x
xxSara
[Modified by: bump&us2010 on February 18, 2010 10:29 PM]
I've got no pain,and haven't had any pain.I didn't with the bleed 6 weeks ago either. I don't know if i'm coming or going,and i'm just so confused i could actually bawl my eyes out with frustration. Urgghh! x
p.s sorry for ranting,no1 else to talk to about it so i let it all out here
Keeping everything crossed for you........ make sure you update us all on Monday. Will be thinking of you and hoping for some great news x