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Hi Ladies,
I am joining you through unfortunate circumstances, today i am 8 +3 and on friday i was told my little bean was 6.4mm but there was no heartbeat. I was given different options of how it can be dealt with. I decided to opt for the medical management where i go into hospital tomorrow and they give me a tablet to induce mc within the next 48 hours. i will then spend all of wednesday in hospital waiting for it to all come out.
My husband and i are devasted, this was our first baby.
I was wondering whether anyone else has gone through this who can give me some advice?? I am really really scared as the midwife has told me that i am going to be in quite a bit of pain from the contractions and there is going to be a lot of blood. I am scared at really dont know what to think. I keep feeling pains in my stomach and lower and think that it is going to happen naturally any minute so i am constantly on edge, this feeling is horrid.
I just hope i feel better after it is out and all over with.
Katiee x
UPDATE -
Thankyou to all the ladies that replied to my message, i really appreciate it, it is wonderful to see all the support out there.
Well, i went in on Monday to speak to the doctors and i decided to have the operation to have my little bean removed . I went in on Wednesday and all done. I really dont know what to say about it, the doctors and nurses were all lovely - but now i just feel really empty and sad. Im still in a bit of pain and bleeding but at least that should stop in time.
Katiee x
[Modified by: Katiee on 13 March 2010 17:34:00 ]
I am joining you through unfortunate circumstances, today i am 8 +3 and on friday i was told my little bean was 6.4mm but there was no heartbeat. I was given different options of how it can be dealt with. I decided to opt for the medical management where i go into hospital tomorrow and they give me a tablet to induce mc within the next 48 hours. i will then spend all of wednesday in hospital waiting for it to all come out.
My husband and i are devasted, this was our first baby.
I was wondering whether anyone else has gone through this who can give me some advice?? I am really really scared as the midwife has told me that i am going to be in quite a bit of pain from the contractions and there is going to be a lot of blood. I am scared at really dont know what to think. I keep feeling pains in my stomach and lower and think that it is going to happen naturally any minute so i am constantly on edge, this feeling is horrid.
I just hope i feel better after it is out and all over with.
Katiee x
UPDATE -
Thankyou to all the ladies that replied to my message, i really appreciate it, it is wonderful to see all the support out there.
Well, i went in on Monday to speak to the doctors and i decided to have the operation to have my little bean removed . I went in on Wednesday and all done. I really dont know what to say about it, the doctors and nurses were all lovely - but now i just feel really empty and sad. Im still in a bit of pain and bleeding but at least that should stop in time.
Katiee x
[Modified by: Katiee on 13 March 2010 17:34:00 ]
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If you have any questions or need any adive then don't be afraid to ask on here, everyone has been amazing on here for me and it has been a real help. Hope everything goes as well as can be expected tomorrow. Take care x
I started to mc myself at 6+2 and again at 6+5 so neithet time I have need yht emedical management. As I wasn't so far gone mine was like a heavy period but with worse pains although it was kept at bay with paracetamol.
The best advice I can give you is not to put too much pressure on yourself and take days at an hour at a time, and ensure that you use those around you for support - that includes us too and please remeber that as I have found the support on here to overwhelming and I really don't think I would have got through the mcs without the ladies on here.
Sending you lots of hugs at this horrible time.
xxx
Remember you and hubby look after each other. We are all here for you as well.
Jen. xxx
This is a great site to come onto, everyone is so supportive and understands the pain you are feeling. You can come on here to cry and get angry or say anything that maybe you feel you cant say to others, we totally understand. I found it hard to talk to people who hadnt experienced a mc as they didnt really understand.
Look after yourself, my thoguhts will be with you
Jacqui
xx
your not alone we are all here for you..
try and keep your chin up xxxxxxHUGSxxxxx
Sorry to hear your sad news. I had found out that my littleone had died at 8+4 on 11th Jan when I should have been 12 weeks. I had a D&C however before I had the op I did have some contraction pains. It feels like pain really low in your back but the hospital will give you some pain relief and it eases. I recommend you take a couple of pairs of pants and bottoms plus your own sanitary towels so you do not have to use the hospital ones. The staff will be lovely and will really help you. Will be thinking of you tomorrow! xx