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Ok...I see alot of new people here since I've been gone. I'll run through my story real quick. I am 23 and hubby is 27. We have a 3 year old son, which took us 2 years to conceive naturally. I never went on birth control after I had him, but it still took another 2 years to conceive naturally again, but sadly I miscarried at 6 weeks last April. I had a D&C April 20th and we've tried ever since to get pregnant again. I just had laparoscopic surgery almost 3 weeks ago and my dr removed quite a bit of scar tissue due to endometriosis. He said we should start "aggresively" trying after 2 weeks bc my best chance to conceive is within the next 2 months. We were naughty and bd'd about a week and a half after my surgery instead of 2 weeks, and we've been bd'ing atleast every other day since (although we had a 3 day streak in the middle lol). Saying all of this leads me to my questions...has anyone gotten pregnant soon after a lap surgery? And also, when can I expect af? Sorry for tmi, but I bled for about 5 days after the lap, which started right after my surgery. Should I count that as my af? I was actually over a week late on the day of surgery, so now I have no idea when I should ovulate or expect af. I just hope that this surgery actually helps us to conceive another child.
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sorry i havent had lap surgery so cant offer advice, but just wanted to say Im sorry about your loss and I hope you get your BFP real quick
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Jacqui
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we've just moved house, and i finally felt brave enough to get all of our baby stuff from the inlaws to have at ours - its now all packed away in the spare room. It was very emotional looking through it all, but on a positive note - I and you will get to use the lovely things that we have very very soon.
take care of yourself hun - and keep us posted with how you're getting on, we're all here for each other.
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Gussie- it has been a while since we got to chat. Thank you for the kind words, I hope all is well with you also. It's now been about three and a half weeks since my surgery and still no af, so Im keeping my fingers crossed for good news. It would be great if I were to fall pregnant this month, especially since I got pregnant last march with the baby we lost, so having a baby in December around my last due date would be such a blessing! (although I'm not getting my hopes up).
Baby dust to us all and I hope this will be our big month!!!