Does anyone ever
feel like life can be a bit unfair??
Hubby and I went to lunch with friends today and they announced they are 10 weeks pregnant...via a 'happy accident'. Ever since I started ttc I have wondered how accidents ever happen!! I am really pleased for them as they are happy about it and knew they wanted kids at some point...but I just wonder why it's so hard for some of us to get that bfp when it's so easy for others!!! This couple are living apart at the moment due to work and so only had sex once on a weekend they saw each other...she had no idea what time of the month she was at and didn't even have any clue she was pregnant until she was 6 weeks as she takes so little notice of her cycles that she didn't realise she was late!!! I don't mean any of this in a bad way to them or anything, and I am happy for them, but sometimes it's hard to hear about accidents when we try so hard each month to get the timing right and using pillows and all the other rubbish we do!!! I guess I just want this so much, I get a bit emotional sometimes and find it hard hearing it happen for others when they don't even try...
Sorry for the moan, hope you're all having a good weekend
Hubby and I went to lunch with friends today and they announced they are 10 weeks pregnant...via a 'happy accident'. Ever since I started ttc I have wondered how accidents ever happen!! I am really pleased for them as they are happy about it and knew they wanted kids at some point...but I just wonder why it's so hard for some of us to get that bfp when it's so easy for others!!! This couple are living apart at the moment due to work and so only had sex once on a weekend they saw each other...she had no idea what time of the month she was at and didn't even have any clue she was pregnant until she was 6 weeks as she takes so little notice of her cycles that she didn't realise she was late!!! I don't mean any of this in a bad way to them or anything, and I am happy for them, but sometimes it's hard to hear about accidents when we try so hard each month to get the timing right and using pillows and all the other rubbish we do!!! I guess I just want this so much, I get a bit emotional sometimes and find it hard hearing it happen for others when they don't even try...
Sorry for the moan, hope you're all having a good weekend
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There really should be a smilie of the green eyed monster...
I would use it all the time
Just after my 1st mc I had listen to one of my friends (who was 20+ weeks pg) telling someone that she and her husband were very suprised as they weren't really trying and although they had decided to start TTC they didn't really want it just yet :evil: as you can imagine the tears were rolling down my face
I suppose fate has a lot to answer for!
xxx
my best mate has been trying now for 16 months and so i am secretly wishing a bfp for her and me!!!
i was also an accident!! well kinda, first time my mum ever did the deed i was conceived!!! lol
muppet29 - agree about facebook, it's so hard!!! One of my friends has pretty much only had status' about being pregnant for weeks now and while of course I'm thrilled for her it's hard to read every time I log on!!!
Garfiled24 - me too, this was my 4th friend to announce it today within the last 2 months...and another one told me today that her and her DH are going to start trying so I am kind of dreading that she will tell me she is next month too - how bad does that sound? Oh and I agree with the green eyed monster smilie too : )
Rainbow - oh my god, that must have been SO hard. I can't imagine how much that must have hurt. But you're right, I do think that fate has something to do with it, I have to believe that it will happen when it's meant to or I think I'd be a mess!
Mrs JC - wow that is unbelievable about your mum!!! For my mum I was the third, but she had been planning to stop with just my two brothers so I was the late surprise addition, hehe. I hope you and your friend can get pregnant together really soon!!
Thanks again ladies, like muppet29 I really find it so much easier to be able to come on here and chat to you than my 'real world' friends - I think you have to be going through it to understand!!
Good luck to all of you, I really hope we can all get those magical BFPs REALLY soon!!!.x.
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