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I am absolutely disgusted
I've just been up town and i couldnt believe it when i saw this bloke (a rather chavvy bloke) picking up, what i can only assume is his, a child with a fag hanging out of his mouth. The smoke was going all over the poor child. I couldnt believe it! :x
I wanted to shout something to him but thought better of it. Well who am i to say anything
OK thats better got that off my chest now xx
I wanted to shout something to him but thought better of it. Well who am i to say anything
OK thats better got that off my chest now xx
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I've just found out that the girl that won't move out of the house that I've brought has gone and got herself pg so that she can get herself a nice council house when we've finally evicted her!! Not only that, a friend of my OH has just announced they're expecting again, why?? Because they get more benefits!!! Blows my mind people these days. Don't even deserve their poor kids!!
Lady - thats what really f@*ks me off with this country is people like that and they just seem to get whatever they want. She will prbably be smoking drinking and whatever else throughout her pregnancy whilst we're finding it difficult to even conceive. Oh its just not fair (stamps feet! I'm allowed to stamp my feeet today seeing as ugly af arrived!!) he he
So when do you think they will finally evict her then? Well i suppose at least if shes pregnant then she will get out quicker and then you can move in! Still so annoying that people like that can have kids though!!
Lady2188, I've just found out that not content with her 2 bedroom council house with front and back garden (paid for entirely by our taxes), my 21 year old cousin has just deliberately gotten pregnant with her second, most probably to get a 3 bedroom house! :x So I can understand your frustration with the tenant in your new place!
[quote Lady2188, I've just found out that not content with her 2 bedroom council house with front and back garden (paid for entirely by our taxes), my 21 year old cousin has just deliberately gotten pregnant with her second, most probably to get a 3 bedroom house! :x So I can understand your frustration with the tenant in your new place!
Ladies I can understand your frustration when waiting for a BFP, but I think these comments are a little unfair and quite frankly oppressive and judemental.
I don't know these ladies from adam, but to say that they will probably be smoking and drinking and probably to get a 3 bedroom house I think is unfair to them, how do you know they they don't actually want these children, to love and cherish?
I'm not trying to start an argument, but thought this was worth considering
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My hubbys friend had a flat and hes got a 1 year old which wasnt planned they just couldnt be arsed to use protection! and hes keeps bragging on facebook about that hes got a new house, All paid by us! He cant be bothered to work. He had a job for about a week but was sacked coz he couldnt get up early in the morning!
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Now if that were me being a decent hard working human being (she also has a toddler by the way) I would have made him put a condom on until id found a roof to put over the childs head that I already had. But no,she knew that by getting pg the council would have to do something about it. God forbid she became homeless. But my notice on my flat is up next weekend so I'm going to be homeless and have to move into my moms study and hence put off ttc. But who cares about the baby I want cus I pay tax and work so sod me!!
The benefits system in this country is far to easy and scum like her know it and play to it and I'm so annoyed right now that I can't have my baby that I can afford so that she can have hers why the rest of us go to work everyday to pay for it!!!!!!!!!
Maybe I was being a bit stereotypical with my comments because i HAVE known women who have had a baby just to get benefits etc and theyre so open about it too! I have even SEEN these women smoking, drinking and doing more! OK i dont know the woman that lady2188 was talking about but she just sounds exactly like the others.
Shes obviously not thinking of the kids and just thinking of the pound sign in her head.
Poor kids living in cramped conditions, oh well she will probably be given a bigger house for free anyway.
It really is not fair for us hard workers. But fair play to the people who lost their jobs in the recession, that doesnt annoy me in the slighest.
Me and hubby are considering moving abroad in the later future to get away from this unbelievable rip-off of a country. Cant believe the fuel is going up yet again! and just got my bill for council tax and thats gone up too! Someone please remind me what the council do to deserve our money coz from where im standing they do sod all!
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[Modified by: MrsPinkPlayboy on March 17, 2010 07:53 PM]
Petrols goin up, council tax in my area has had the highest rise in the country, they're trying to make me insure my tiny little harmless dog, my OH is self employed so he gets no paid paternity leave, they took my nans house off her to fund her care home place because she had dementia, yet the council roll over when lazy gits get themselves pg! Roll on the general election!!
Yep agree roll on that election! xx
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btw having another child doesn't automatically entitle a person to another bedroom - up till the age of ten opposite sex children can share and no age limit on 2 same sex kids sharing a room - well this is the case in Scotland but I think the law is the same in England too.
J xx
i stopped smoking when i found out i was pregnant an do not like it when other people smoke in front of my child when i choose not to subject him too it!!
Grrrrrrrrr :x
[Modified by: **MrsR** on March 17, 2010 09:18 PM]
Sunshine, if I had your job I would probably have severe depression, as would my OH thanks to my moaning!! I think id rather not know the full extent of the benefits system. I really hope they don't give her a 3 bed house!
I looked at moving to LA last year, but like you say, much harder to get in there! I imagined myself living in that house that cameron diaz has in the film the holiday! I don't think id have the problem of evicting a benefit breeder in that area of the world!
Also I understand the benefit thing there are some people out there that do the system cause I've seen it too and I agree it's out of order, but not everyone can be painted with the same brush if there on benefits just cause there are some that take the piss for some it's not there choice & would love nothing more than to find a job & support thereselves & there families.
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