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Poll - will you find out the sex of the baby?
Thought it would be fun to talk about what we will do when we get our BFPs
I would like to know if I am having a boy or a girl as I am a bit of a control freak and like to plan things (not a good thing when TTC lol)
Hubby does not want to know the sex. He likes surprises, So how do we decide who gets their way on this one?
I would like to know if I am having a boy or a girl as I am a bit of a control freak and like to plan things (not a good thing when TTC lol)
Hubby does not want to know the sex. He likes surprises, So how do we decide who gets their way on this one?
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i found out with both of them tho as i say i want to know with my 1st but found out with 2nd as we had so many problems that they said i could lose the child so i found out and she is lovely but with number 3 i don't want to find out as i do want a surprise no doubt some of mine and OH family will keep asking but i am going to stand by it i would of last time but i was a little cut up so i wanted to know
i loved going out looking at what we could buy her (we didn't tell anyone that we knew) and we picked up a few things and hid them
but at the end of the day its YOUR discission. we did think about it for quite a few weeks before we made up our minds do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I want to know in order to prepare and because I hate surprises esp. now that I have countless totes of baby girl clothes and blankets! Do I sell them or do I keep them? There is enough surprise etc. with birth and just what the baby will look like etc.
To each there own, nobody should tell you what is best for you or force their opinions on others so if DH really didn't want to know, I wouldn't have found out but I'm glad he didn't care either way....
i think finding out the first time was such a help and i feel i know what im doing next time round :roll: i will find it hard not being able to buy things tho lol so maybe when i see something il put the money aside for when we have bubs then mega splash out lol
After watching one born every minute on tues I have kind of changed my mind a little!!! I still think I would get to the scan and give in though!!! No will power!
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I always thought I would find out and I really would love a little girl and hubby wants a boy but we have both said either way we are happy to have a baby and ideally we would like 2, 1 of each but it doesnt happen like that.
Lol maybe I will just have twins and be over and done with as hubby is adament we cant have anymore than 2 kids...............spoilsport!!
Anyway in answer to your question, no dont think we will find out now I like the element of surprise and announcing its a boy or girl and what you have called him or her. I can definately see the pros of finding out tho to be more organised and theres loads more you can buy etc.
I think now I wouldnt but maybe we would change our mind at 20wk scan, oh I really dont know now its always been a dont know if we will or wont situation!!
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