Had My Op
***UPDATE***
Hi Ladies, well had my op yesterday, there was a lot of waiting around, we had to be there at 7.30am, but think I actually had it done just before 11am, home a couple of hours later.
It was ok, I was upset before and after, and had some bad crampting, which they gave me a little morphine for, then I was allowed home and just went to bed, couldn't sleep all that well, coz cramping and backache pretty bad, so just carried on with the painkillers.
Am bleeding (obviously), but not a huge amount, can't wait for it to ease off though. Slept ok, but still feeling a little groggy this morning and more cramping/backache, so am just taking it easy, and I am hoping to go back to work Monday, will only have to do a week, as then we're off for a mini break, which I think will do us the world of good.
Not sure how I'm feeling this morning, was very emotional when we got home, but this morning, am feeling just numb really, I feel we have closure, but I'm upset that it happened to us. We did everything right, I don't drink, smoke, we ate very healthily, I took the folic acid, I know there's no rhyme or reason, I just never thought it would happen to us.
We got told about the cremation service again, the date is 25th May, I think they put your name forward, then its up to you if you go or not. I think, coz its a few months away, hopefully by then we will have moved on, not forgotten our little bubba of course, but think it will be hard to go. If it was next week, then maybe - know what I mean? So we haven't fully decided on that yet.
I'm really scared about trying again, scared of making love, let alone making a baby? Does/do any of you feel the same??
Anyway....I hope everyone doing ok? Thanks again for all your replies, means a lot.
Zxx
Hi Ladies, well had my op yesterday, there was a lot of waiting around, we had to be there at 7.30am, but think I actually had it done just before 11am, home a couple of hours later.
It was ok, I was upset before and after, and had some bad crampting, which they gave me a little morphine for, then I was allowed home and just went to bed, couldn't sleep all that well, coz cramping and backache pretty bad, so just carried on with the painkillers.
Am bleeding (obviously), but not a huge amount, can't wait for it to ease off though. Slept ok, but still feeling a little groggy this morning and more cramping/backache, so am just taking it easy, and I am hoping to go back to work Monday, will only have to do a week, as then we're off for a mini break, which I think will do us the world of good.
Not sure how I'm feeling this morning, was very emotional when we got home, but this morning, am feeling just numb really, I feel we have closure, but I'm upset that it happened to us. We did everything right, I don't drink, smoke, we ate very healthily, I took the folic acid, I know there's no rhyme or reason, I just never thought it would happen to us.
We got told about the cremation service again, the date is 25th May, I think they put your name forward, then its up to you if you go or not. I think, coz its a few months away, hopefully by then we will have moved on, not forgotten our little bubba of course, but think it will be hard to go. If it was next week, then maybe - know what I mean? So we haven't fully decided on that yet.
I'm really scared about trying again, scared of making love, let alone making a baby? Does/do any of you feel the same??
Anyway....I hope everyone doing ok? Thanks again for all your replies, means a lot.
Zxx
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My bleeding started during the night and lots has come out - I don't know if it has finished yet.
Anyway, post as much as you like with whatever you are feeling xx
Anyway im rambling now so will leave you. Just take yout time and keep talking im always on here if you want to talk/shout/cry xxxxxxxxxxxx
Just relax, look after yourselves and don't expect too much too soon. If you need anything just ask, eeryone on here have been amazing and really helped me through the last 6 weeks. Looking forward to you joining us in TTC.
Take care and keep us updated x
the first few weeks are hard emotionally and it seemed to be all I could think of but 31 days on now and I am feeling alot more positive and looking forward to ttc again. I am really scared about falling pregnant and feel sad that I wont be able to enjoy it so much because I will be so worried but It isnt going to stop me and I am determined to stay positive about it.
This site is brilliant if you ever feel really down or angry, i seemed to waver between the two, you can just come on here and rant and get it all out
Hope you have a good time on your holiday, it will be really good to get away from everything for a few days and recoop abit
Take care
Jacqui
xx
This site truly has been a godsend. It has helped me and hubby through some tough days.
The fact that some people have recounted their own stories on here - even though some are horendous and so so sad - yet they still have time to comment and add such warmth to another person's thread means so much. I couldn't be in nicer company on here.....! Zxx
I too was very worried about having sex after my mc and didn't let hubs anywhere near me, although I thought I was ready to TTC again, I obviously wasn't. Best thing you can do is take it an hour at a time and act on your feelings there and then, don't put too much pressure on yourself hun.
Like the other lovely ladies said, use us here as much as you like; whether it be to rant, cry, shout and laugh...we'll always be here
xxx
Im glad the op went as well as it could. It does take time sweetie to greive, give yourself time & have lost of cuddles. Your mini break sounds like it will be a perfect time for you to both have some time out, I hope it helps somehow,
Hugs xxx
I am so sorry you have had to go through this - I felt numb after my erpc too. It does get better, eventually. Hold on in there. xx