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Scared to try....
hey ladies,
i really wanna TTC NOW as i have stopped bleeding and i know i havent had AF but i could catch before as i am VERY lucky to be quite fertile
However we have one BIG problem other thsn obv being scared to miscarry again......im scared to have sex in case it hurts i know it killed the first time i did it after the twins and they were 8 month old I know its totally diff a mc to birth but will it hurt or am i being stupid??
We have offer of babysitter on friday and im thinkng lets take it up go out come home have sex and see.....as my mum will have the girls overnight!
I know the girls are acting up a bit atm but i think they are reacting to me being down so i need to move onwards and upwards and as Sam and i both agreee another baby will help that then the sooner we start the more chance we have of getting pregnant this year
I just need to face my fears x
i really wanna TTC NOW as i have stopped bleeding and i know i havent had AF but i could catch before as i am VERY lucky to be quite fertile
However we have one BIG problem other thsn obv being scared to miscarry again......im scared to have sex in case it hurts i know it killed the first time i did it after the twins and they were 8 month old I know its totally diff a mc to birth but will it hurt or am i being stupid??
We have offer of babysitter on friday and im thinkng lets take it up go out come home have sex and see.....as my mum will have the girls overnight!
I know the girls are acting up a bit atm but i think they are reacting to me being down so i need to move onwards and upwards and as Sam and i both agreee another baby will help that then the sooner we start the more chance we have of getting pregnant this year
I just need to face my fears x
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i had ERPC and cos i had no bleeding whatsoever i had sex 2 days later... like you was also scared it would hurt! but it felt completely normal!!
after birth im sure its very uncomfortable but with a miscarriage it wouldnt affect u as in pain!
xx
Hope it all goes well and just try and relax.
Take care
Jacqui
xx
After the erpc in november last year I waited a week before the bleeding stopped and must say it was straight to normal. No pain, no tightness, no being uncomfertable. I was a bit worried about it at first and wasn't completely relaxed, but it wasn;t bad. We had to use some lubricant though as we were using protection, but no pain.