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Thought i good way to start this post...lol
We can discuss anything and everything on here, somethings - infact MOST things i could never speak to friends, family hubby etc about so here goes another one:
Does anyone else still find sex painful since giving birth? I dont know what it is but it really hurts, i only had a tiny 1st degree tear and a couple of small stitches i am told so nothing too major but it just feels too tight? (omg tmi - sorry guys!)
Is this normal and hpw would i know if things weren't right?
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We can discuss anything and everything on here, somethings - infact MOST things i could never speak to friends, family hubby etc about so here goes another one:
Does anyone else still find sex painful since giving birth? I dont know what it is but it really hurts, i only had a tiny 1st degree tear and a couple of small stitches i am told so nothing too major but it just feels too tight? (omg tmi - sorry guys!)
Is this normal and hpw would i know if things weren't right?
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Like Kimmy it hurts round that bit i was cut. Not sure when it will go - hoping soon!! x
I wouldnt say its sore, but more like a funny numb feeling. I have huge scars down both sides of my left leg from a traffic accident 11 years ago and on the outside of my leg i get the same feeling when its touched, its like the tissue has been pulled too tight!
I also get this numb feeling when AF is here, it makes me cross my legs and hold my bits lol.....
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Yep makes me wince thinking of it - hubby said i screamed like i was being murdered - thats because it felt that way!! lol
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We've only tried once and it killed!
I still feel quite tender and odd down there. I had a 3rd degree tear. I don't have any urge to "do it" at all. I'm a bit worried to be honest. I tense up so much and get all tearful! I think i've got issues!
It is reassuring to hear i'm not the only one who finds it painful though.
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Just to say one of my antenatal friends (no idea why i still call her that) has just had to go back in and be cut and restitched. Turns out the mw did a very poor job. She was complaingin for months how sore she felt and eventually saw the gynae who said she needed an op - she was in extreme pain though so please dont feel I'm trying to scare you. Perhaps if it carries on for a few months have it looked at (Ahh I hate having my bits looked at!!)
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