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Morning ladies
Just wanted you to be the first people I tell about my BFP. Was due AF on Thurstday 25th, and when she didn't turn up I did a test and got the faintest line ever that you had to squint to see it, so I did another and this time it was a lot more obvious that it was BFP. so just to be sure I did another one yesterday mornign and got a very very very obvious line, which is still there today, where the other two had faded over the course of a few hours.
The most I could be is 2 weeks so I'm really trying not to get too excited as I know it is very early days, and we have decided not to tell family or friends until after the first scan. I just can't help feeling negative and worrying all the time. DH is getting fed up of me saying 'well it's early days, anything could happen' and has told me to stop being so negative, but I know through being on here that even getting to the 12 week point, where it's considered less likely to MC, doesn't mean anything as some of the ladies have lost babies far later than that.
Will I ever stop worrying? cos I keep thinking that I will only stop panicking when I'm holding baby.
Sorry to rant, just really scared now that it's happened, and I know I'm so lucky to have got PG so soon after MC but I'm terrified![:\](https://forum.madeformums.com/resources/emoji/confused.png ":\")
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Sam
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Just wanted you to be the first people I tell about my BFP. Was due AF on Thurstday 25th, and when she didn't turn up I did a test and got the faintest line ever that you had to squint to see it, so I did another and this time it was a lot more obvious that it was BFP. so just to be sure I did another one yesterday mornign and got a very very very obvious line, which is still there today, where the other two had faded over the course of a few hours.
The most I could be is 2 weeks so I'm really trying not to get too excited as I know it is very early days, and we have decided not to tell family or friends until after the first scan. I just can't help feeling negative and worrying all the time. DH is getting fed up of me saying 'well it's early days, anything could happen' and has told me to stop being so negative, but I know through being on here that even getting to the 12 week point, where it's considered less likely to MC, doesn't mean anything as some of the ladies have lost babies far later than that.
Will I ever stop worrying? cos I keep thinking that I will only stop panicking when I'm holding baby.
Sorry to rant, just really scared now that it's happened, and I know I'm so lucky to have got PG so soon after MC but I'm terrified
(Sam
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Hopefully some more of us will join you in your due in forum!
If I'm classed as 4 weeks then I should be due around xmas eve, which is not going to be nice for baby, lol. But as long as all is ok I don't care when I have it, lol.
Don't think I'm ready to leave here just yet so will be hanging around for a bit, and I want to make sure everyone else is getting BFP's as well
I have my fingers crossed that everyone will be having either xmas babies or new year babies
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Sending you lots of positive vibes.
Have a happy and healthy 9 months xx
quite alot of people are falling preg this month!!
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Just hope I've got a sticky bean this time
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Keeping my fingers crossed it's a super sticky bean
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Jacqui
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It's normal to worry. I'm in same boat. I feel so incredibly lucky to have caught so soon too. It took us 13 cycles, fertility tests and allsorts last time, so I was and still am shocked.
What's your EDD? I recon if AF were due 25th it'd be about the 4th Dec? x
Thank you so much for your lovely replies and support.
M&S I won't stop worrying either until I can give baby a big kiss and a cuddle, it doesn't feel real and I can't imagine myself being pregnant again.
Fairy, I'm not 100% on EDD, I'm at docs today so will see what he says, but I think around the 4th or 6th December. I worked it out the other day from being 2 weeks PG as I know when I was OV, but doc will work it from first day of last AF, so he will say I'm 4 or 5 weeks now, not 2-3.
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