I really thought we'd done it.....
AF was due on weds but didn't arrive and temps stayed high. I was so excited and managed to resist testing as I wanted to make sure I def got two clear lines instead of umming and ahhing about whether or not I could make them out. By friday I was convinced I was preg- high temps, no AF, achy boobs, increased CM. OH and I were so happy and looking forward to testing on sat morning. Then on fri night got the smallest amount of brown cm, so panicked a bit but it didn't really seem to come to anything, and I have never spotted before AF in the past. Yesterday again, little bits of brown cm but only occasionally after going to the loo. did a test on sat morning when AF was 4 days late and got a resounding BFN. I was gutted. needless to say, was going to test again this morning but AF beat me to it. temps have only gone down a little bit and my lp has gone from a usual 10 days to 14 days? I didn't think it was meant to change? I was wondering whether I might have had a chem preg? or whether m/c has mucked up cycles and affected lp? I'm so gutted I won't get a baby this year, I really thought we'd done it.
one consolation is that I have my appointment through for the fertility consultant in about 2 weeks time so I can start discussing things with them and hope for some progress. since coming off pill a year ago cycles have been 130, 50, 47, and 73 days- its bloody ridiculous!
sorry for the rant- feeling pretty crap xx
one consolation is that I have my appointment through for the fertility consultant in about 2 weeks time so I can start discussing things with them and hope for some progress. since coming off pill a year ago cycles have been 130, 50, 47, and 73 days- its bloody ridiculous!
sorry for the rant- feeling pretty crap xx
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Hopefully your appointment will take you further forward so you can feel more control over what's going on x x
After my mmc my cycles went from 28 days to 32+ so I think a mc can affect your cycles and mess them up. Don't know if it can actually change lp, but it would not surprise me. It also could be that you had a chemical pregnancy.
(tmi: with mine I knew it after I had a positive test, but also knew it because I had a big purple/blue clot in my period)
Miscarriages can really upset cycles -there are different hormones levels at th ebeginning of the new cycle.
Luteal phases tend to be fairly regular but its not unusual for people to vary from a 10-14 day luteal phase especially with the stress of TTC.
Goo luck with your appointment -take your BBt charts with you they can pick up problems by looking at the temp profile.
Take care
DMx
I also felt we had done it this month so it was a real blow when AF arrived a day earlier than I was expecting.
I am gutted it means no baby for 2010 for us but as hubs says it will be lovely to be going into 2011 with hopefully a bun in the oven.
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thanks so much for your replies- it really is so good to have you ladies to turn to xxx
Glad your feeling a bit better lovely.
Good luck at your appt hun, when you take your list of Q make sure you have a pen & pad just incase you want to take noteson what they say as well, always found that helped.
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