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Anyone elses other half let them down with bding??
So this month we are doing the smep yet again
hubby will be all up for it so we will do it the first two
times then always at the crucial stage near or at ov he will
start moaning about "having" to have sex with me.
He insists he wants a baby as much as me but does this every time!
He has ruined yet another cycles chance and I'm being to have
had enough!!! I actually despise him right now!
It feels I'm the only one who's hubby doesn't actually want to have
sex with me!! It's not like I don't make an effort, I put on sexy
underwear and everything. If I don't make the first move, it doesn't happen!
He never ever Makes the first move, whethers it's baby making sex or otherwise.
Whats the fucking point, Grrrrrr!!!!
hubby will be all up for it so we will do it the first two
times then always at the crucial stage near or at ov he will
start moaning about "having" to have sex with me.
He insists he wants a baby as much as me but does this every time!
He has ruined yet another cycles chance and I'm being to have
had enough!!! I actually despise him right now!
It feels I'm the only one who's hubby doesn't actually want to have
sex with me!! It's not like I don't make an effort, I put on sexy
underwear and everything. If I don't make the first move, it doesn't happen!
He never ever Makes the first move, whethers it's baby making sex or otherwise.
Whats the fucking point, Grrrrrr!!!!
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it's really making me resent him, I can't help it!
Ive tried talking to him but he makes false promises n then gets annoyed if I push it any further, x
That is my plan next month - it's not that hubby is unwilling, but I actually 'broke' him last month by overdoing it too early, so on the day of the positive OPK there was no chance.
I have said that next month we are having a good few days off before I am due to ov. I know it's meant to be good to keep the swimmers fresh and BD every 2-3 days, but I figure if it's a choice between slightly older swimmers or no swimmers at all, older swimmers has to be the lesser to two evils right?
Here's hoping a bit of 'witholding favours' will do the trick! xx
Funny because if I would hav got preg this cycle the edd was xmas day so you never know! Xxx