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omg cant believe it! vent!
hey girls really need to vent. Cant talk to anyone else.
last night me and hubby had a massive argument. feeling so down.
Admittingly i dont tend to tell him about every bill that comes through.
I dont do this to keep it secret in a nasty vindictive way, but in a way that i would rather not tell him so i can sort them out without having to have both of us stressing. I no its not the best way and i understand that now. therefore last weekend i told him everything so there were no more secrets.
I felt so much better for telling him and having everything out in the open.
he then asked me to send of an ebay item which i fogot to do but did it today. I told him i had sent it as i planned to do it today.
He then found out that i hadnt done it.
he started going on about my lying and that he cant put up with it anymore. So he said its over.
I feel like hes trying to have a bit of a power trip. But i dont want him calling our marriage off when the shit hits the pan. He needs to understand that we are married and if he wants me to change for the best then we should stick together instead of doing this.
Then this morning, i woke up and felt really sick with cramps down below........what if im pregnant and were not together?
were only young hes 20 and im 21 but we have been together since we were 14.
I love him so much! i cant bear this.
argggggggggg!i just dont know whats going on and its driving me mad!!!!!!!
sorry about this girls just feel like crap at the moment!
xxxxx
last night me and hubby had a massive argument. feeling so down.
Admittingly i dont tend to tell him about every bill that comes through.
I dont do this to keep it secret in a nasty vindictive way, but in a way that i would rather not tell him so i can sort them out without having to have both of us stressing. I no its not the best way and i understand that now. therefore last weekend i told him everything so there were no more secrets.
I felt so much better for telling him and having everything out in the open.
he then asked me to send of an ebay item which i fogot to do but did it today. I told him i had sent it as i planned to do it today.
He then found out that i hadnt done it.
he started going on about my lying and that he cant put up with it anymore. So he said its over.
I feel like hes trying to have a bit of a power trip. But i dont want him calling our marriage off when the shit hits the pan. He needs to understand that we are married and if he wants me to change for the best then we should stick together instead of doing this.
Then this morning, i woke up and felt really sick with cramps down below........what if im pregnant and were not together?
were only young hes 20 and im 21 but we have been together since we were 14.
I love him so much! i cant bear this.
argggggggggg!i just dont know whats going on and its driving me mad!!!!!!!
sorry about this girls just feel like crap at the moment!
xxxxx
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Sorry to hear you are going through this email me if you want as I had a similar argument with my hubby last nite and yes it was over money and me wanting to buy a car but he always throws our money situation up in my face and I was feeling exactly the same as you omg what if he leaves me and I end up finding out I am pregnant.
Just try to talk things through with him honey, your both only young but obviously love each other hope you can sort it out.
xx
If I was you I'd try to talk to him explaining why you did it and see if you can work it out. I know they are only White lies and you mention you haven't been truthful about bills also. I once got in trouble with not paying council tax,long story but I didn't tell hubby, when the bailiffs came round it was very hard to explain to him why I hadn't told him and rightly so he was pissed off at me as it affects both of us. He was also angry that I felt the need to not tell him about something about money.
Xxx
It is one of those catch 22 situations, you keep it from him as you think if you tell him he will be cross and you will argue but if you keep it from him and he finds out, it is ten times worse.
I hope you manage to sort it out - you never know the making up might make a baby
Oh bloody hell! You are having a rough time aren't you!