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grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! warning... rant alert.
im getting married next month and obvisuolsy we are ttc. nobody knows that we are trying tho. but im sooo fed up of me saying yes we would like children soon, and everyone turning round to me saying o enjoy yourself first why do u want children young, why dont you enjoy marriage first! ahhhhhh. im so frustated, people are so patronising! just because i dont throw up my hard earned money into a gutter each week. im in a perfect relationship have a nice happy home, and am physically and mentally ready for children! people just dont understand and it really gets to me! rant over. sorry about that! xxxx
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justarascal, yeah everyones RSVP'd now! woooo! so excited! honeymoon bub would amazing! or even PG on the wedding day! would love it! woohoo!
KIMLOU been together 3 yrs! and yes its the same situation with u aswell, everyone trying to tell you what to do with your lives and whats best for you, im big enough to make my own decisions lol. grr! maybe if i was still living at home or something. but we have a mortgage, getting married, and doing everything properly, are in a good financial position, so why on earth not!? *tuts* people! lol xxx
p.s kimlou, me and my sis have 6 yr age gap and we get on so well! and a friend of mine has an 11 yr age gap and they get on too! i dont think age is anything to do with it, its temrement of the child, and that you treat both fairly etc, so ust ignore everyone else! lol x
awww kimlou! you will one day im sure! you have a bub tho! so im jelous too! hehehehe x
I've been with my partner for over 6 yrs, I have a 9yr old daughter from a previous relationship and he has 2 sons. There is a very big age gap between us but we are ready to try for a baby and one of our single female friend's keep trying to split us up and tell us that we are wrong. Why? I'm 30, he's a very young 52. we have a mortgage, I work, he has his own business. We are stable and happy. Why is that wrong?
Like babyprincess says, it is a longing and why has anyone got the right to question that?
Phew...That my rant over! Really hope you don't mind ladies. Just really gets me down sometimes! xxxxx
I stopped the pill end of feb and only started to ttc end of march so only a few weeks.
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[Modified by: wildthingv8 on April 13, 2010 05:57 PM]
good luck with getting what you want everybody and ignore those intruders
Thank you for your message Shuck xx
THE LIFE POLICE
and they are everywhere!!! They like to 'police' other peoples lives!
someone always has something ''helpful'' to say.......your either too young, too old, what about your career? what about the money? married or not married! why cant people be just happy supportive and get on with their own lives hey!
its the same weddings, babies, jobs....and i am sick of it!! as long as me, hubbie and bubs are good i dont care hehehe
god i sound a narky cow xxx im not really i promise
babydust...hope you get bfp and join me in DID if not DIJ xxxx
mrs cake catnkittenand mrs hobbes! i totally agree!
congrats catnkitten! would love to join you lol, fingers crossed ey!
wildthingv8, def no problem with that, (basically what kimlou said lol)
feeling a bit better now knowing its not just me that gets annoyed by these interfeering people!!! xxxxxxx good luck everyone xxx
Good luck xx