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feeling a bit fed up
i cant belive it, my OH has said that after i have had my operation on tuesday which is also when my 1st af after mc is due he dont wanna ttc because he dont wana c me so heartbroken again. i which case we will neve be able to ttc because it wll always be a risk. i wonder if this is the truth or he has just decided he dosnt want a baby anymore, in which case i just wish he would be honest with me. now i am in two minds if to bother having the laparoscopy and hysteroscopy because if were not planning to have a baby then what is the point in putting mysef thru it!!
sorry for the rant girls, im sure he means well but im just fustrated!!!
hope ur all well xxx
sorry for the rant girls, im sure he means well but im just fustrated!!!
hope ur all well xxx
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Doe she just want to wait a few cycles? *hugs*
Good luck x
It's not though, promise. I'd have the tests to, it'll put your mind at rest in th elong run. Chin up, xx
Your definately not sounding selfish, Id go ahead with the operation. It might just be his way of coping and that he might be worried and nervous about the whole situation.
I think he's looking out for you.
My hubby has been so negative about this whole TTC business, i know he means well because its so stressful and can cause alot of heartache so i see where he is coming from.
I think its a man thing. )
MPP
xxx
Sit down with him and have a talk, tell him how you feel and ask him to tell you honestly how he feels.
Good luck. x