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Ne 1 Trying for a baby had a bad first birth?
Hey just wondering if ne1 trying had a bad first birth? mine wasnt nice! and just a bit worried about the next 1!! i know that every birth is diff! so i just keep that in my mind!!
xjen
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edited to say woops not trying right now but sooooon!!!
[Modified by: piggypops on May 06, 2010 10:15 AM]
Ur right all are diff!!!!
But it's all worth the gorg wee baby n love takes over the pain!
This time, when I get my BFP, I'll be prepared and know to speak up sooner and not pretend to be superwoman just to keep up appearances.
I will def trying things differently this time and the whole experience hasn't put me off at all. Like you say, every birth is different and mine can't be any worse than the first, so things can only go better!!
Good luck,xx
Despite the fact i gave birth with only gas and air i was considering have an epidural next time just so i was less in control and there for less likely to push at the wrong times.however thats a mad idea isnt it? Im just very concerned i will tear again,although research says just because i tore once doesnt mean i would again. I now want a water birth as i dont really want a epidural,i had to have a spinal block when i had surgury afterwards and that was just horrid.
Holly x
i just hope i dont have the same drama!!!
i also had an irritable uterus! ne one herd of this??? it was strange! insted of having contractions long to short they wer 2-3 minz from the start!! so i have no idea why that happend!!
never mind roll on the next baby........
xjen
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But I know what you mean, I sometimes have 2nd thoughts too... I've talked ot my doc about it already and with my background I've been told I'm already considered high risk so the chances of what happened first time around should be avoided 2nd time (and last time!)...
Bring on 2nd baby!
we must be mad!! what we do 4 these babies!! yeh i bet i will be highrisk 2!! i was last time which ment more doc appointments!! which helps to keep u calm cuz i worry to much!!
Nice to know there are a few of us warrior's doing it all again.....lol
xxjen