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Cycle days after miscarriage??
Hi ladies, I'm hoping to get straight back into ttc when my horrible mc is over. The bleedings starting to slow down quite a lot now so I'm hoping its coming to an end, but I'm not sure when cd1 is/was? What do I count as cd1? Or when am I likely to ovulate?
Any help would be appreciated because I'm hoping to catch the fertile period between mc and af
Any help would be appreciated because I'm hoping to catch the fertile period between mc and af
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I normally ovulate really early in my cycle- I counted my mc as cycle day 1 (the day with the heaviest bleeding) and I ovulated on cycle day 17. I had pains and a little EWCM so I guessed I was ovulating. I always have a LP of 15 days which was the same as I started af exactly 15 days after I thought I ovulated. So, I was lucky to have a normalish cycle. I wasn't lucky enough to catch the eggy though (
I was a confusing cycle in terms of CM-had a lot more than normal and had something similar to EWCM not long before af which made me confused! I'd get some opks hun as when you ovulate can be unpredictable after mc. Or as s'n's says-just bd everyday
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Hi caz3006, i'm doing a bit better now thanks. I'm so eager to be pregnant again! I can't bear walking around asda etc as all the clothes i cooed over before make me sad now. I just want another baby that i can make those lovely plans for again. Although my next baby will always be a little brother/sister! How are you doing now hun?
Sorry BOB i've just asked about your cycle on your BFP post an now i notice you've answered here. Very big congratulations on your BFP! It's fantastic news and i really hope it's the sticky bean you deserve!!
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i think we are about the same time too im on cd 8 so fingers crossed for both of us, are you back at work or still taking it easy?
I'm back at work this week, i couldn't afford not to really. Plus OH has gone back so i would have been on my own at home which i thought might make me worse. I had a good cry again last night because OH was working away and i felt abit sorry for myself. I find when people ask me how i am i constantly have to tell them i'm ok when i'm not really. I'm still upset but just feeling better than last week really. It's not something that i'm going to snap out of. I think it's something you learn to live with rather than get over really.
I'm finding the worse bit is seen babies everywhere. I never noticed before how many there are! I saw a lady in asda cafe feeding her baby earlier and i felt really sad then. I find it tends to come and go throughout the day!
Apparently your body can send out mixed signals after a mc so i've not bothered using my fertility monitor this month, just going to bd every other day! I switched on my cbfm today and it said cd36 because i hadn't reset it from the day i got my bfp. I had a little cry over that too lol!
I really hope to see you over in the due in feb forum by the end of the month!
i think getting back to normal does help to take your mind off it sometimes, i tried to keep everything normal for my son cos i didnt want to get upset in front of him he is a little mummy's boy and would not have liked to see me upset, as for babies everywhere tell me about it every where i look theres a baby or pregnant woman, oh well hopefully it will be us soon enough,
take care chick spk soon xx