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So I woke up this morning.........UPDATE
...and got yet another BFN!!
I know it is probably my cycles all messed up but it's so frustrating. This is my first month off the pill (was on cilest for about 10 years). My AFs were regular before going on the pill.
Took my last pill on 30th april then withdrawal bleed from 4th may till 8th may which would make me on CD 31 today, been having AF type cramps since about CD27/28 and bloated but absolutely no sign of AF. Had dark brown spotting on and off between CD20-CD25 ish.
Did CB test on CD 26 BFN
FR CD 27 BFN
SD CD 29 BFN
FR today on CD 31
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
Someone please help. This is only our first month and I'm going crazy already.
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[Modified by: Wispa on 03 June 2010 17:50:27 ]
I know it is probably my cycles all messed up but it's so frustrating. This is my first month off the pill (was on cilest for about 10 years). My AFs were regular before going on the pill.
Took my last pill on 30th april then withdrawal bleed from 4th may till 8th may which would make me on CD 31 today, been having AF type cramps since about CD27/28 and bloated but absolutely no sign of AF. Had dark brown spotting on and off between CD20-CD25 ish.
Did CB test on CD 26 BFN
FR CD 27 BFN
SD CD 29 BFN
FR today on CD 31
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
Someone please help. This is only our first month and I'm going crazy already.
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[Modified by: Wispa on 03 June 2010 17:50:27 ]
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It can take quite a while for your cycles to settle down again Hun, mine were 35, 29 and this one was 28 (breakthrough bleed).
I know it's frustrating and annoying but keep up your pma. Have you bled yet? Or any spotting? If you've got an iPhone get the iperiod - it's really helpful and easy to keep track of your cycles xx
My first cycle off the pill was 28 days, then cycle 2 I fell pg but kept getting bfn's until cd33 so I gave up testing and waited for AF. It wasn't until cd49 I got bfp!!! Ended in mc though and I'm now on cd30 since mc! I have lots of pg symptoms and don't feel like af is coming at all but who knows?!
Its rubbish!
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Good luck, hopefully you'll have your bfp soon.
Sorry to here about mc lady, symptoms sound good so fingers crossed for you, any idea when you might test x
wildthing- haven't got the iphone, sticking with my old skool brick of a phone but thanks anyway. Nice to hear other peoples cycles were crazy and that you've now got your BFP so there's hope!!
Tilly- sorry to hear you're having similar probs, it's so frustrating isn't it?!
Lady- I saw your post on another thread, that's crazy you didn't get your BFP until CD49, do you know why? Sorry you had mc. Fingers crossed for you this month.
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Can't believe I'm writing this here and so sorry if too much info but today I've been having big blobs of cervical mucus when i wipe. I've had it on two separate occasions and it's a semi transparent jelly like blob. Have no idea what it was.
Suddenly started thinking that maybe the spotting was a very very short cycle and perhaps i was now ovulating again but that seems a bit crazy. Peed on an ov stick today tho just in case and no ov so now really confused. Anyone any ideas? Pleeease
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Although.... I was getting faint lines on tesco and asda cheapies yesterday but weren't convinced but today i've done another clearview cheapie thing and there's a faint line on that too. And when i say faint i mean faint but definately there. I can't be sure there not from my mc though so i'm gonna try and hold off testing till Sunday (try being the operative word :lol
CM is a good sign of pregnancy, i had loads when i was pg! Even had to go buy panty liners I also had an impantation bleed with my last pg too, though i'd got AF a couple of times as it was quite heavy at times, but nope!! So iy still sounds like you're in with a chance!
Are you going to test again?
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Think i might keep testing randomly until AF shows. Hehe, that's gonna cost me a fortune!! I've also spent a fortune on ov sticks so i can satisfy my poas urges and just incase i'm ov'ing really late. Can't hurt can it?!
Baby dust for us both
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sorry you got a BFN, you may well go back to a normal cycle but it could be a long cycle. When I came off the pill (microgynon) I'd been on it 13 years and think I had regular cycles before hand but it took 4 months before I ovulated again (luckily I caught it and managed to get pg without ever having an af!) and in the first month off the pill I had a lot of clear cm and all kinds of symptoms but it was just my body reacting to the lack of hormones.
But on the other hand there are loads of people who get normal cycles and manage to get pg in first month so it is probably just a waiting game unfortunately.
You mention using opk's - have you had a + on these yet?
Fingers crossed you get your bfp soon
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Yep I'm almost 9 weeks now! I was getting so frustrated that I wasn't having periods and went to Dr's twice - they tested my bloods etc and confirmed my body was 'stuck' in the first half of the cycle. They said that it can take a while for the ovaries to 'wake up' as when you think about it they haven't been used for many years! Someone recommened me to use opk's so it was probably after 2 1/2 months of no af I brought some. I got a load of ebay and used them everyday and eventually (4 months after withdrawal bleed and about 6 weeks after using opk's) I got what I think was a positive (it wasn't darker than control but got my bfp a couple of weeks later so it must have been. I think the cheapie ones are not always truly positive.
Lots of people notice ewcm when they ovulate but I didn't I just had some back ache and a weird feeling in my tummy (almost like indigestion). I think the ewcm happens a few days before ov so it could be what you have and I'd keep testing with your opk's and you may get a positive in the next couple of days.
I really hope you don't have such a long wait as I did and you ov soon xx
Grrrrr its so annoying. I wish you could know whether af's on her way or whether your pg!
Babydust to you
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Thanks again
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