sorry if TMI but need some sex education!!
Hi
I didn't think i was naive, being 30 years old i thought i was pretty clued up! Me and H2b decided to come off the pill 3 months ago with a view to if it happens it happens, and being laid back about it. However, i am monitoring when the right times might be and planning it a little bit more than him, it's hard not to! H2b came home after the match the other day having had a few drinks, i knew it was roughly the right time in my cycle so made the first move and we had sex. At the end, it totally seemed like he came but there was no fluid draining after at all from me, not even later in the day (sorry if TMI). This has never happened to me before. I asked him if he did come as i know this can be harder to do when under the influence - but he was very convincing and i can't imagine he'd ever pretend!! He said that he did but that there wasn't much in it as it was more "emotional." He said this when he was still a bit drunk. I am wondering whether i can be at all optimistic that i might have a chance this month - as i don't know what happened?! Has this ever happened to anyone else? Or is he just having me on?! :roll: feel a bit stupid asking.
I didn't think i was naive, being 30 years old i thought i was pretty clued up! Me and H2b decided to come off the pill 3 months ago with a view to if it happens it happens, and being laid back about it. However, i am monitoring when the right times might be and planning it a little bit more than him, it's hard not to! H2b came home after the match the other day having had a few drinks, i knew it was roughly the right time in my cycle so made the first move and we had sex. At the end, it totally seemed like he came but there was no fluid draining after at all from me, not even later in the day (sorry if TMI). This has never happened to me before. I asked him if he did come as i know this can be harder to do when under the influence - but he was very convincing and i can't imagine he'd ever pretend!! He said that he did but that there wasn't much in it as it was more "emotional." He said this when he was still a bit drunk. I am wondering whether i can be at all optimistic that i might have a chance this month - as i don't know what happened?! Has this ever happened to anyone else? Or is he just having me on?! :roll: feel a bit stupid asking.
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The best way to get PG though is to do it daily or at least every other day leading up to the middle of your cycle. We BD every other day from cd10 (my cycle is 26-28 days normally), I use OPK's and when I get a +ve opk (usually cd12 or 13) we BD daily for 3 days running then we usually stop. I had got my bfp twice doing this, unfortunately they didn't stick. Good luck hun.
and hey you never know so good luck
Good luck xxx
Good luck xxx