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Hi Ladies,
Well i think i'm out again this month as hubbie only BD once with me around OV time. i'm only 8DPO and think i'm imagining symptons ie sore boobs, sick stomach which is NOT helping.
Me and hubbie had a huge row about why he won't BD with me when we suppose to, it got so bad that i threatened to leave him( more to it than just BD)(last month he only bd once aswell as he said he had a bad back!!! and just as i said to him that i can't stay as we both are fighting and wanting different things. he cried an said that his scared that i'll MC again. he never spoke about my MC to much when it happened just said its ok we'll try again and comforted me (when i tried to comfort him he said his ok).
how thoughtless am i!!!!!!???????????? i didn't know that it effected him that much...... but we had a heart to heart and he said we'll try properly next month (i told him if he wanted a break TTC it would be ok)
So anyway if we don't get caught this month we are sooooooo going to try hard next month ( i'm thinking postive, fingers crossed)
anywat sorry about the rant feel better just writing it down.
babydust to all
chaxxx
Well i think i'm out again this month as hubbie only BD once with me around OV time. i'm only 8DPO and think i'm imagining symptons ie sore boobs, sick stomach which is NOT helping.
Me and hubbie had a huge row about why he won't BD with me when we suppose to, it got so bad that i threatened to leave him( more to it than just BD)(last month he only bd once aswell as he said he had a bad back!!! and just as i said to him that i can't stay as we both are fighting and wanting different things. he cried an said that his scared that i'll MC again. he never spoke about my MC to much when it happened just said its ok we'll try again and comforted me (when i tried to comfort him he said his ok).
how thoughtless am i!!!!!!???????????? i didn't know that it effected him that much...... but we had a heart to heart and he said we'll try properly next month (i told him if he wanted a break TTC it would be ok)
So anyway if we don't get caught this month we are sooooooo going to try hard next month ( i'm thinking postive, fingers crossed)
anywat sorry about the rant feel better just writing it down.
babydust to all
chaxxx
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chaxxx
I think you'll find things will be much better now he's opened up. When I had my mc OH was so good at comforting me and telling me everything would be ok. He cried twice but that weren't much compared to me.
He went to see his sisters newborn 2 weeks ago and came back in floods of tears and it hit him like a brick wall. We talked and talked as I was abit pissed off before that he didn't seem all that bothered but as it turned out he did but he cared so much for how I felt he didn't show it. I felt so bad!
But like I say things will feel much better for both of you now hun and you can start afresh (if you don't get your BFP this month of course)!
Good luck hun
Xxx
PS I love the pic Mrs me. I might have to find me a nice summery picture now
chaxxx
good luck and big hugs!!!!
chaxxx