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Help me!!!

MunkBumpMunkBump
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So, we've been trying for 9 long months - getting very depressing and feeling really really down about it.

Was trying SO hard not think about it this month and have been off the website for about 5 weeks image

Anyway, so AF due today and had cramps last night and today - not as bad as usual, but def af cramps all the same.
Temp very high this morning and no sign of AF - neg pg test though!

Help me! I dont want to get hopes up but just want af to come if the horrid cow is coming! Normally temp very low by now. xx

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    ellies-mummy-and-little-beanellies-mummy-and-little-bean
    i would wait a few days as hard as it sounds and test again as some people only get a BFP when thei af is 1-2 weeks late!! its sooo hard but i'll keep my fingers crossed for you!! xxxxx
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    lou1403lou1403
    Awwww hun I feel so bad now....my PMA seems to be at an all time low and I have only been trying for 1 month and I see your post and you've been trying for 9 months....its sounding positive though hun with your temps, especially if they are usually low at this time. Keep smiling hun I know its hard, we'll get there image xxx
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    LiannemgbeanyLiannemgbeany
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!! So kno the depressing feeling. Im on CD2 (7th Month) and thought this month may have been my timeimage

    Anyway were all here 4 u...keep us posted xxx
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    LiannemgbeanyLiannemgbeany
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!! So kno the depressing feeling. Im on CD" (7th Month) and thought this month may have been my timeimage

    Anyway were all here 4 u...keep us posted xxx
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    Reeny74Reeny74
    Hi Munk07 I really feel for you, and know how it feels. I've been ttc for few months now, and I thought it get easier but it doesn't.
    It is def good to step away from BE for a bit like you have.
    I am in a same situation as you, AF cramps, no af, also temp sayed high, which I belive its a good sign, but bfn anyhow..

    Like ellies mummy said some ladies just don't get a bfp until much later.
    Have a look at my thread called did anyone get bfn followed by bfp, it is quite reassuring to know it is possible...
    Good luck
    xxx
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    MunkBumpMunkBump
    thanks for your replies everyone - its made me feel a bit more positive! i am trying to not get my hopes up though, as it seems its just disappointment after disappointment at the moment! i never thought it would be this hard and its getting me down, which, in turn is making hubbie down and def not doing us or the ttc any good! i am sure my PMA will come back soon, its just hard as i REALLY dont want it to take over a year! will keep you all posted!
    wont be testing till wed morning - so will see what happens image
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