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HI,
I am on month 5 of TTC (CD14) and recently I have been lying awake at night worrying about never being able to conceive naturally.
I know in the whole scheme of things I have not been trying for long at all but it is starting to play on my mind.
What if I am unable to conceive! I hope people who have been trying longer than me find this an insensitive comment - it is not meant in that way at all.It is just always at the back of my mind!
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I am on month 5 of TTC (CD14) and recently I have been lying awake at night worrying about never being able to conceive naturally.
I know in the whole scheme of things I have not been trying for long at all but it is starting to play on my mind.
What if I am unable to conceive! I hope people who have been trying longer than me find this an insensitive comment - it is not meant in that way at all.It is just always at the back of my mind!
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Good luck with your journey - and don't stop having fun in the process!
We are still having fun with it but I just dont understand that if I am using my cbfm and bding at the right time why it is not happening!
I think that the length of time I was on the pill comcerns me as well.
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ah well keep going
I keep trying to remind myself that it is perfectly normal for things to take this long (or much longer!) but it can be hard when plenty of people get pg straight away (or even by accident!) I too sometimes wonder why it hasn't happened when l know hubby and I have BD'd at the right time each month.
Sorry, that is more my own ramblings / concerns there - but what I am trying to say is that you are definitely not alone in feeling this way and I'm sure it is 100% normal to have these thoughts / worries. But try to remember that many, many people do take longer than 5-6 months to conceive but go on to get pregnant soon after. I hope that doesn't sound like I am dismissing your worries as I am in exactly the same boat as you - that pep talk is aimed at myself just as much as anyone else! xx
Just as MrsDoc, I had this bad feeling deep inside for so long, when I got married I tooks pills for 3 months, and I constantly worried about TTC. I even kept asking drs.
Now 10 months later my concerns were true, but in my case it was due to male factor. I thought it would be me but its DH.
I don't mean to say that these feeling will turn true, but in my case I had it for so long.