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SOMEONE HELP - PANICKING* UPDATE*
Ok, so I posted last week i think asking about implantation cramps, I tested this morning and got a faint but very definate BFP - we have been trying for months so half of me is over the moon the other half is wanting to cry as I have been having terrible pains in my right hand side for a few days now, last night i was in alot of pain, my mind is racing and all i can think is that I am suffering from an ectopic pregnancy.
I am literally sh!tt!ng myself, have been sick I think with worry more than anything.
Would a preg test still say positive with an ectopic?
Please someone help I am shaking with fear right now and just crying.
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Update: hi all, have been to the docs today all seems fine, she has booked me in with midwife next week for bloods and will look at them see if anything shows up. Thank you everyone who offered advice, really helped me so much.
Morning sickness has now kicked in joy, and feel so weird in the head like I'm drunk - is this normal?? yuk x but i don't mind it's all for a good cause! xx
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I am literally sh!tt!ng myself, have been sick I think with worry more than anything.
Would a preg test still say positive with an ectopic?
Please someone help I am shaking with fear right now and just crying.
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Update: hi all, have been to the docs today all seems fine, she has booked me in with midwife next week for bloods and will look at them see if anything shows up. Thank you everyone who offered advice, really helped me so much.
Morning sickness has now kicked in joy, and feel so weird in the head like I'm drunk - is this normal?? yuk x but i don't mind it's all for a good cause! xx
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didnt want to read and run so my advice is if u r that worries get urself off to the GP. better it be nothing and put ur mind at rest i say
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I had period like pains before i got my bfp, like af was going to start.
If youre that worried go see your doctor hun xx
First of all CONGRATULATIONS you're pregnant!!!!
Don't panic, some cramping is perfectly normal in early pg, with my ds I had this for the first 11 weeks or so, sometimes it really hurt too! I even had a spot of bleeding but all was fine and ds is a happy healthy 1 year old. It is a worrying time and noone tells you that bit but try and relax, enjoy being pg it goes so fast.
Ectopic pg often have, severe pain and pain in your arm. If you have bleeding and severe pain that is the time to worry but what you are experiencing sounds normal honey.
Blowing lots of sticky babydust your way hon xxx
and congratulations xxxx
Also, if it is so early BFP is very faint - there probably wont be a baby yet on scan - it doesnt show up till 6 weeks, But if they can see any sign of a ectopic or tube rupturing they will act or re scan you a couple of weeks on to double check (by which point they may well see your little one),
I know its worrying chick but you really need to get checked out. Keeping everything crossed for you. Abdominal pain can be a funny thing - often resolves with no explanation - but at the same time it would be crazy to ignore this. Let us know what happens. xx
So you think it would be far too early to have pains from an ectopic if I was only 2-3 weeks then?
I have just waited for this for so long I just want everything to go fine and not end up in a disaster.
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The pain isn't really there at the mo, just feels very different if that makes sense.
My heart is racing and i'm shaking like mad, why can't things just be easy!
Thank you all for advice and support, thank god for places like this.
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Don't panic yourself. Other ladies have given great advice and you have done all you can for now. Try to spend the weekend relaxing or distracting yourself. xx
Thanks Keri-Anne - gongrats on your bfp too - just saw that! If all goes well then maybe we can be buddies as I'm guessing we would be due around the same time?
Told hubby and he is so excited, I am taking all your advice and will try and relax over the weekend and we have said that if there are any bad pains that really worry us then we are straight off to the hospital, but just having positive thoughts and focusing on mondays appt with the doc.
Have calmed down a bit now too which has helped. Think I was a bit silly yesterday as for some reason I decided it would be a good idea to jump around on my exercise trampoline for ages and then go food shopping and lift extremely heavy bags, award for thickest mum to be goes to curly wurly.
I will keep you all updated and again huge thanks to you all, you are stars and I wish everyone happy healthy pregnancies, babies and BFP's in the near future, you all deserve it xxxx
thank you pavy, that's very interesting, have no idea about that! Think I am calmer now as you and someone else has sadi ectopic wouldn't really show signs until a bit later and think I can only be around 2 - 3 weeks?
Thank you again xx