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Really TMI question!!
Sorry this is gonna be a bit unpleasant, but have any of you had problems having sex whilst TTC?
We used to have sex once to twice a week and it was really good. But now we're trying to do it everyday it just isn't working that well.
We're both getting frustrated/ upset and wondering if there's something wrong... I'm just not getting wet down there anymore, and he's not getting hard enough. It works in the end with a lot of patience and 'stuffing it in' (sooo sorry!) but it's just not enjoyable, and we're both left feeling like there's either something medically wrong or we don't fancy each other anymore!
We used to have sex once to twice a week and it was really good. But now we're trying to do it everyday it just isn't working that well.
We're both getting frustrated/ upset and wondering if there's something wrong... I'm just not getting wet down there anymore, and he's not getting hard enough. It works in the end with a lot of patience and 'stuffing it in' (sooo sorry!) but it's just not enjoyable, and we're both left feeling like there's either something medically wrong or we don't fancy each other anymore!
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Really my advice would be donut when you feel like it for a month and take the pressure off. I think a good way one of the lovely ladies said. Doing it the cavman way. He he (don't mean hitting you over the head and dragging you into the bedroom by the hair he he)
Hope this helps x
[Modified by: Ladybird73 on July 29, 2010 11:12 AM]
Also I think a lot of people need a little help in the form of a lubricant if you're at it every day!
I don't think its unusual... maybe have a break, 3 or 4 times a week might work better. Good luck xx
Due to work and early starts we usually get down to it when we go to bed so different times of day are something different. And I never mention to hubby ovulation or fertility or any thing along those lines... that's not going to get him in the mood! X
also keeping all the techy stuff to myself and not acctually telling him when its time so theres no pressure,
the two lubes mentioned are swimmer friendly