feeling a bit low today
Hi girls, this is my second time in the group but I know you will all look after me again as you did before.
I had my first m/c naturally between 5 and 7 weeks in January so when I found out I was expecting again in May we were over the moon. I really felt like this was going to be it.
I had a small bleed two days before my 12 week scan after having a scan at 9 1/2 weeks and seeing the heartbeat. My midwife booked me in for a scan the next day and they could not find a heartbeat - it was soul destroying, but hubby was amazing,
After reading up on advice here I decided to have an ERPC which they booked me in for 2 days later - hospital were crap for patient care but physically I was ok with in a couple of days and stopped bleeding in about a week.
Just waiting for first AF to arrive now and kind of looking forward to trying again I am just so anxious if it will happen for a third time. I am 30 and hubby is 41 so really want things to work out for us both,
Feeling low today as a guy at work has just had a little boy...just cant help feeling like this is supposed to be my time for sharing my news and starting to get my little bump.
Anyway, I feel a bit better for getting if off my chest.
Has anybody advice after ERPC and consecutive m/c....does it get easier as time goes on?
xxx
I had my first m/c naturally between 5 and 7 weeks in January so when I found out I was expecting again in May we were over the moon. I really felt like this was going to be it.
I had a small bleed two days before my 12 week scan after having a scan at 9 1/2 weeks and seeing the heartbeat. My midwife booked me in for a scan the next day and they could not find a heartbeat - it was soul destroying, but hubby was amazing,
After reading up on advice here I decided to have an ERPC which they booked me in for 2 days later - hospital were crap for patient care but physically I was ok with in a couple of days and stopped bleeding in about a week.
Just waiting for first AF to arrive now and kind of looking forward to trying again I am just so anxious if it will happen for a third time. I am 30 and hubby is 41 so really want things to work out for us both,
Feeling low today as a guy at work has just had a little boy...just cant help feeling like this is supposed to be my time for sharing my news and starting to get my little bump.
Anyway, I feel a bit better for getting if off my chest.
Has anybody advice after ERPC and consecutive m/c....does it get easier as time goes on?
xxx
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Sorry I have only just seen this! I have been avoiding this site as my edd was 27th July. I remember you from Jan when we had our mc almost at the same time. I had a mmc in Jan and had an ERPC. My period turned up 30 days after the op. I found the first couple of AFs a bit heavier than normal after the ERPC. One 'good' thing is that my cycles have been far more regular than before. Unfortunately for me I have not ovulated since and have just been referred for fertility treatment. Sending you a massive hug!! xx
it is so hard some days to function and not think about it, I am finding today hard as I should be 16 weeks......I guess it gets easier like it did last time and all I have to do is try and hope for the best.
Muffin I hope things work out for you, sending baby dust your way so do keep in touch!!!!
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