Who have you told?
Before OH and I gave up TTC last time we'd mentioned it to a bunch of friends and my sister (who is my best friend in the whole world). When I say "we" I mean "my OH" - he couldn't keep his mouth shut!!! Well then we gave up for a while and I felt like a bit of a tit !
So this time round I have forbidden him from telling anyone that we are TTC but last night he pretty much begged me to let him tell his best friend (this was before the "I don't think we're ready" talk but that's another story, he's over it...we're still TTC thank God).
So at the moment the only person who knows we're TTC is his best friend (who I really do trust and think will keep it quiet).
Have you ladies told anyone or are you trying to keep it on the down-low?
So this time round I have forbidden him from telling anyone that we are TTC but last night he pretty much begged me to let him tell his best friend (this was before the "I don't think we're ready" talk but that's another story, he's over it...we're still TTC thank God).
So at the moment the only person who knows we're TTC is his best friend (who I really do trust and think will keep it quiet).
Have you ladies told anyone or are you trying to keep it on the down-low?
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read your post re oh.... Last month I got "when are you due on so I can start panicking" so I know how you feel Hun lol !
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i feel like such a bad friend
so basically watch who u tell lol xxx
we already have an 18month old so i dont think its a surprise to anyone tbh! xxx
Oh no miss-to-mrs, that's such a shame! I would be gutted if that happened to me ! You're not being a bad friend...this TTC malarkey is so difficult and is a big strain on our emotions. I'm sure your friend will understand. Hopefully you'll get your BFP soon and your bubs can be friends too
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As for the OH, as long as he is getting his oats he's not really brooding over it lol... Although the "my son would be blah blah" comments are starting to come thick and fast now lol... God help me if we have a girl lol
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Shirls you're friends sound very sweet. I'm sure mine would be supportive if we let them all know but like I say I'm just not too keen on the attention. Oh and I don't want to look like a plonker if (God forbid) it takes us forever or if it turns out we can't conceive. God I hope that's not the case!
Jellybean I understand where you're coming from with the stopping drinking! My brother's birthday and a friend's birthday are on the same day this month and it just so happens that I think I'll be in the middle of the 2WW at the time so I'm going to have to come up with an excuse for not drinking with them. Joys!