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Another night feed questions - please help =(
My favourite topic, sleep, or lack thereof....
LO is now 22 weeks and has got into the pattern of feeding every 3 hours or less at night (on a very good night he'll go 4 hours but hardly happens) He is EBF and prior to 4 month growth spurt would go anything from 5-8 hours between feeds at night (did wake to be settled once or twice) adn when he woke would feed on one side for 5-10 mins then that would be him again. During the day he would go every 1.5-2 hours between feeds and again just on one side.
Now he feeds every 3 hours but from both sides and feeds for about 20-30mins a time at night but during the day he can be very fussy and distractable and keep pulling on and off so sometimes doesnt feed well at all.
However all this waking at night is killing me, I'm lucky to get more than 4-5 hours a night and its beginning to take its toll physically and mentally - during the day I love him more than anything but at night I get so frustrated with him and I dont want it to be like that, its making my not enjoy being a mum like I should be doing. I feel like my milk isnt satisfying him the way it should or used to. We started weaning this week but it's still early days so he's only on first tastes. DH and I have discussed giving him formula before bedtime but I desperately want to make it to 6 months EBF so am hoping to find some words of wisdom as to either why he's waking so frequently and is so hungry, or any tips to stop him feeding so regularly. Could it be my milk is no longer good enough?
Thanks for any help you can give me
A very tired grizzle.....
LO is now 22 weeks and has got into the pattern of feeding every 3 hours or less at night (on a very good night he'll go 4 hours but hardly happens) He is EBF and prior to 4 month growth spurt would go anything from 5-8 hours between feeds at night (did wake to be settled once or twice) adn when he woke would feed on one side for 5-10 mins then that would be him again. During the day he would go every 1.5-2 hours between feeds and again just on one side.
Now he feeds every 3 hours but from both sides and feeds for about 20-30mins a time at night but during the day he can be very fussy and distractable and keep pulling on and off so sometimes doesnt feed well at all.
However all this waking at night is killing me, I'm lucky to get more than 4-5 hours a night and its beginning to take its toll physically and mentally - during the day I love him more than anything but at night I get so frustrated with him and I dont want it to be like that, its making my not enjoy being a mum like I should be doing. I feel like my milk isnt satisfying him the way it should or used to. We started weaning this week but it's still early days so he's only on first tastes. DH and I have discussed giving him formula before bedtime but I desperately want to make it to 6 months EBF so am hoping to find some words of wisdom as to either why he's waking so frequently and is so hungry, or any tips to stop him feeding so regularly. Could it be my milk is no longer good enough?
Thanks for any help you can give me
A very tired grizzle.....
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I feel your pain! myy dd went through similar at that age. She is 25 weeks and althoughshe doesn't wake so often she still wakes once or twice for a feed. I would try to stick with it, i know how hard it is but your baby is getting bigger so needs more milk which is why he is feeding so much. Once he has increased your supply it will settle down. Can you express some milk to allow your hubby to give him a night feed while you get some sleep? I really don't think formula will make any difference, it may just upset his tummy.
Stick with it and it will get better, good luck xxx
I expressed after 2 weeks because my LO wouldn't latch on properly, god it hurt!
Hope you get sorted soon xxx
Good luck xxx
fyi following on hv comments about my greedy boy have knocked the 11, 3 and 6 feeds in the head, he was actually fine just needed distracted more but not gurning the way I thought he would be so he obviously was just 'using' me rather than hungry lol little tinker!
Damned if you do, damned if you dont.
On a happier note have been at work for the day so he's had a bottle of EBM before bed so I can now express for tomorrow night and see if we can get back to expressing enough for an EBM feed a night.
And in terms of support I know what you mean, my mum is amazing but miles away and sometimes you dont want to tell the people you see all the time that actually you're having a bit of a s**t time of things. Although I did spend all day today telling my colleagues how little sleep I get and how knackered I am, then how cute LO was as an afterthought. Oops...
i was just looking into his wee face while he had he bedtime feed and thinking how gorgeous and innocent he is and how much i truely love him and gave him an extra wee squeeze before putting him down