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Embarrassing sex question...
Following on from a post I wrote a few weeks ago...I have still not done it! (blush) There is a small reason, I had some discomfort from my operation and had to be referred to a specialist but its really not that bad...and getting better. A good few weeks ago hubby mentioned it when we were cuddling and I hadnt had my 6 wk check yet and was in discomfort so said we would think about it again later...well now neither have mentioned it and I dont really know how its ever going to happen. For a start I dont feel in the slightest bit like doing it...and then there is the fact James is in our room...and on week nights hubby mainly sleeps in spare room as he has to get up so early he needs a good sleep. We havent done it since April eeeek...what shall I do? how do you do it when the babies are around?!!
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How about one night when you both don't have to get up in the morning, ask a relative or close friend to look after LO for the night and just have some alone time? If it leads to you know what, then yippee! :P
For me I really don't feel like it, but my OH is constantly asking me for sexual activities, so I just pretend to fall to sleep. Hahahaha. Mean.
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Im not worried about it tho at the mo, we have plenty of time for all that when she is older and at the moment we are both really happy that our priority is her. I am content for now and so is hubby but dont think it will last much longer, even im beginig to feel like its been ages now hehe
Sorry whinge over but im so annoyed it had to be me espec after the whole not doing it when pregnant after birth i coped with the pain as megan was here - having to have them re done while running around after a 6 or 9 month old is a scary and painful thought respec as i have no one to help me out at all during the day if i need it...7
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I haven't had my 8 week check yet but things feel back to normal to me, and hubby *ahem* said it felt the same! It kind of feels like loosing your virginity again so I had to stop and then the passion went, poor hubby! Though why he thought he would get any in the first 4 weeks after a 2 deg tear and lots of other stitches is beyond me!
it's a bit different for us as i put Jayden in the nursery overnight but we are still both too knackered and usually collapse into bed
hubby has suggested we get into bed as soon as Jay is in bed (7pm) and we've had dinner on Saturday so we can have some "romantic" time
for those with babies sleeping in your room - can you put them in the nursery initially then move them to your rooms before you go to sleep? I give a feed at 10.30pm and this used to be the perfect time to move him into our room
For the first time in AGES last night me and hubby had some 'us' time but didn't do the deed, mainly because I'm still having my period!!! It's been 3 weeks now!!!! Grrrrr!!
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We very often dtd just after putting the kids to bed... our sex life to pretty much as it always was... but maybe we are old hands at it now cos this is second baba... and hes been in his own room from 2 days x
Evie was born by rotational forceps so I was cut and then stitched. Going to speak to HV when she comes for 12 week check on Monday.
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