Icing on the cake :(
Does someone have a magic wand??
Or a time machine.....
I cant believe my life....
Ella has broken her arm in 2 places =/ She did it 3 DAYS AGO and i just took her to hosp this morning im such a bad mum..... She didnt5 cry all that much and they have both bin clumsy i posted in BID forum about it they have loads of scatches and bruises the doc idnt think it was broken but xrayed her anyway as she was a bit sore to touch and saw the 2 breaks she fell off a chair My poor baby she doesnt get it easy plus it always seems to be Ella she always gets it worse never Ruby
The doc has reffered me to SOCIAL SERVICES OMG Surprised Apparently protocol because they have been admitted with injuries to the arm inconsistant of a fall she fell on an angle i wasnt there to watch her so didnt know how she fell and she and Ruby (who was with me) had bruises on their arms and legs im not hitting my or hurting or neglecting my toddlers they are my life and im hoping that social services dont take this serioiusly and realise i have been investiagated in order to get sam to adopt the girls :S I still havent seen sam so done all this on my own hes home 2morro and were meeting then apparently see what happens i have more pressing issues atm! Im so MAD at the hospital for doing this i mean maybe they have to to protect themselves but kids die in their own home from abuse and im a good mum or at least i do my very best and it aint always easy but i love them i couldnt bear to lose them....they fall a lot i posted about it on here i was getting worried ablout it and them starting nursery on monday as well i thought the nursery would wonder if i hurt them and noe the hospital is.....will the nursery be informed before they start? Id be mortified i love my girls more than anything im really hoping the adoption thing helps us as we have had home visits n stuff for it and social workers have been at the house but the twins wernt as clumsy then i really dont know what to expect eep............:'(
On a pregnancy front i have really sore ribs and am starting to feel sick again but that could be this situ and the stress im trying to stay calm for bambino but so hard with all this going on
Sorry to rant again ladies
xxxxxx
Eve, Ella, Ruby and Yellow Bump (21+6)
Or a time machine.....
I cant believe my life....
Ella has broken her arm in 2 places =/ She did it 3 DAYS AGO and i just took her to hosp this morning im such a bad mum..... She didnt5 cry all that much and they have both bin clumsy i posted in BID forum about it they have loads of scatches and bruises the doc idnt think it was broken but xrayed her anyway as she was a bit sore to touch and saw the 2 breaks she fell off a chair My poor baby she doesnt get it easy plus it always seems to be Ella she always gets it worse never Ruby
The doc has reffered me to SOCIAL SERVICES OMG Surprised Apparently protocol because they have been admitted with injuries to the arm inconsistant of a fall she fell on an angle i wasnt there to watch her so didnt know how she fell and she and Ruby (who was with me) had bruises on their arms and legs im not hitting my or hurting or neglecting my toddlers they are my life and im hoping that social services dont take this serioiusly and realise i have been investiagated in order to get sam to adopt the girls :S I still havent seen sam so done all this on my own hes home 2morro and were meeting then apparently see what happens i have more pressing issues atm! Im so MAD at the hospital for doing this i mean maybe they have to to protect themselves but kids die in their own home from abuse and im a good mum or at least i do my very best and it aint always easy but i love them i couldnt bear to lose them....they fall a lot i posted about it on here i was getting worried ablout it and them starting nursery on monday as well i thought the nursery would wonder if i hurt them and noe the hospital is.....will the nursery be informed before they start? Id be mortified i love my girls more than anything im really hoping the adoption thing helps us as we have had home visits n stuff for it and social workers have been at the house but the twins wernt as clumsy then i really dont know what to expect eep............:'(
On a pregnancy front i have really sore ribs and am starting to feel sick again but that could be this situ and the stress im trying to stay calm for bambino but so hard with all this going on
Sorry to rant again ladies
xxxxxx
Eve, Ella, Ruby and Yellow Bump (21+6)
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Although it feels awful it is the professional responsibility of the doctors etc to investigate this. It doesn't necessarily mean that they think you've done anything wrong but they have to play it safe. I watched Panorama the other day about a family who were accused of hurting their son:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b00tlczw/Panorama_Please_Dont_Take_Our_Child/
It's not easy watching but may give you some useful info. It does have a happy ending. )
Good luck and I hope Sam is supportive for you,
H xx
It's great you have an existing relationship with the SSD as a lot of background info on you and the family will already be known so it might not feel as investigatory as it might do otherwise, where they are coming in completely blind.
They're acting in the interests of the children & if you can keep this objective thought in your head, then hopefully you'll better contain your anxiety which will give off the best impression of you, who you really are.
Good luck and fill us in, I'm sure to say all is well and dandy
I also watched that ep of panorama and while distressing it may give you some helpful info.
Like lizzie says it hopefully will be easier as you already have a relationship with ssd because of the adoption.
And we can all vouch that you posted awhile ago about them going through a clumsy phase and that a lot of our toddlers are aswell!
Someone was telling me yesterday that it can happen as they approach 2 as they go through another big growth spurt, thing of a gangly teenage boy and how clumsy they are when they suddenly grow!!
I hope ella is ok
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