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Feeling of anti climax
Hi everyone
I had my baby boy on Monday but despite how much I love him and how pleased I am to finally have him here I can't help feeling like its an anticlimax. Is this normal? I am feeling terribly guilty that I feel like this as surely I should be feeling over the moon. I can't stop thinking about how I'm never going to pregnant again (have 3 children now) and have that feeling of baby kicking me or experiencing birth again. I feel so so guilty!!
I had my baby boy on Monday but despite how much I love him and how pleased I am to finally have him here I can't help feeling like its an anticlimax. Is this normal? I am feeling terribly guilty that I feel like this as surely I should be feeling over the moon. I can't stop thinking about how I'm never going to pregnant again (have 3 children now) and have that feeling of baby kicking me or experiencing birth again. I feel so so guilty!!
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Didn't want to read and run...
Perhaps it's your hormones making you feel a bit down right now?
Also, because this is your last baby you're probably feeling a bit deflated that you'll never experience pregnancy/childbirth again like you said.
But please don't feel guilty - I am sure you'll be feeling better once your hormones have settled down a bit. Ups and downs are all a normal part of giving birth and those first few weeks so you have nothing to feel bad about.
Love NN xx
Lots of love to you and your baby x