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Ok ladies lets have a sex chat!!
So who has ventured (obviously we all know what you have been up to 4aboy!! - naughty naughty!) Iz will be 4 weeks on Monday and hubby has been very patient and is not nagging but I can tell he is frustrated. Last time was the morning my waters went. To be honest I am really wanting to but I am scared. I had a small labia tear but no stitches, I feel quite healed but sometimes still a little sore. I am just not sure I could relax. Also we will be going back to condoms and after 2 years 9 months of rubber free sex, not sure it will be as good!!! So where are you all at, I know some of you have very new babies xx
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I'm so exhausted to be honest, it's not on my list of things to do - but I know he's dying for it!!
I had a forceps turn and stitches which got infected and took some time to heel and so I was very nervous about it especially as I still feel uncomfortable at times.
It was fine though! It felt a little uncomfortable at first although i was nervous so maybe I wasn't relaxed enough. It soon felt fine though and just the same as before!! Hubby says he can notice a difference but was happy and i believe him as didn't take long at all for him!
It was fine, actually quite normal. But I had a normal vaginal birth with no cuts or anything.
Im back on the pill
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The labour was terrible and I have a second degree tear but I feel so randy, can't wait to get the jiggy on with hubby!
Not sure he is as keen after what he's seen this past week - my green waters (where she pooed), them stitching me, my catheter, my towels, blood in the bath, my constipation problems...
I reckon it will be a few weeks yet but am looking forward to it. We have yet to decide re. contraception...