Please help - done something so dreadful
Please help. I have done something dreadful and my husband says he doesn't know if he can ever forgive me. Just some context - we got married in June. I am 25 and hubs is 40. We both have excellent jobs and a lovely house that I bought then he moved into when we met and is now in both our names. I don't have periods, never have unless I am having the fake ones on the pill. I've been desperate for a kid for so long, and knew it would take a while because of the no periods and my follicles being covered in cysts. Anyway hubs said I could cone offthe pill in feb as he refused to believe me about having no periods and was convinced it would happen really quickly . I am ashamed to say I couldnt wait and came off in october. I haven't had a period since but u couldn't bear to lie to him any longer so tonight I told him the truth. He has gone totally ballistic, says he doesn't know if he wants to be with me any more and will never tryst another word I say.
Please ladies what should I do? I know I have behaved so so dreadfully and I am so sorry from the bottom of my heart. I feel that I am breaking with the pain- can barely see for tears. How can I get him to forgive me for what I have done. I an such a horrible person.
Please ladies what should I do? I know I have behaved so so dreadfully and I am so sorry from the bottom of my heart. I feel that I am breaking with the pain- can barely see for tears. How can I get him to forgive me for what I have done. I an such a horrible person.
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I'm sure he'll calm down soon.
i know you came off the pill early when he didn't know but there's no harm done is there? It's not as if you're got pregnant on purpose behind his back.
Hope everything works out for you hun and you're not a horrible person xxx
It's not like youv only just started dating and never talked about kids... You were planning them for a couple of month time! Your urge to be a mother took over and you did hat any woman desperate for a baby an to be a mum would do!
I'm sure he'll come around but of you ask me he's being a bit of a drama queen and needs to take a whileto chill down!
Big hugs Hun, I'm sure he'll get over it soon!! Don't blame yourself! Xx
Saying he doesn't know if he wants to be with you anymore and that he can't ever trust you is grossly disproportionate, and I do hope he comes to realise that when he calms down. All you can do is apologise for wanting children and jumping the gun a bit. Yes, you probably should have told him but no-one's perfect and we all make mistakes. It's not like you've just robbed a bank and bought yourself a secret life with a toyboy somewhere!
Hope you feel better soon xx